I dont think 5 different people have eaten me out in my entire life .
Hopefully, you guys connect. It’s good to talk to someone one on one. I know they are a “rent a friend” but they tend to listen and I personally think you need “to talk” with someone. If it doesn’t go well, you can always try another. I’m not saying shop around for psychologists, but I hope you find one that can help you. That takes balls to admit you are seeing one. Congrats!
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How old are you?
Choosing to do such things with different people vs only allowing few during your life is a very personal choice and depends on a host of factors.
I’ll go ahead and assert that us guys have it easier, since it’s girls that tend to be judged when they sleep with a lot of guys. At least here where I live it’s this way, the US sound like they might be a little more “liberal” in this sense (got example, in Italy we don’t have as strong a party culture).
Well I have never been blown by a total stranger so that could be less of a concern (and the first can happen even with a girl you know well).
Anyway, to answer your initial question—I don’t see anything disgusting in having different mouths down there, as long as they belong to attractive girls I like.
Isn’t that what makes the difference between a consensual act and rape?
Casual sex is nothing to be ashamed about if not in a relationship. (Wear protection edit)My issue is you are young and have issues. I think you are not filling up that emptiness inside with “the right thing” as I said earlier. You have plenty of time for sex. Right now you need to learn life skills. Think of how many divorces there are…don’t you want to get”your” house in order before you enter the battlefield? Just a thought…
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Oh and seriously r-e-l-a-x (and fuck cheeseheads but term appropriate cuz he isn’t a baaaad man).
Not sure what you just said here
Haha! Aaron Rodgers…let me see that was a few seasons ago…I’ll see if can find link. He’s called a baaaaad man cuz some think he has skills, but he isn’t in my top three qbs lol. You are so uptight, not meaning anything else. Just breathe
I have friends who do this shit - the difference between you and me, I think, aside from the obvious, is I tell them I think they’re sad, lonely, little boys.
I’m about to sound curmudgeonly, but these dating apps are a bit inhumane and take out the courage and personality one used to have to meet other people IRL. Not sure if your friend utilizes the Tinders of the world, but that’s what my single friends do…
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^Yeah, OP, I think casual sex is fine. It’s your personal issues and the fact that you brought up the reddit MGTOW stuff that raises a couple of red flags.
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Well, I guess the whole MFM thing is dead… Where is holymac when you need him?
I can tell you where he’s not - making a lunk alarm video at Planet Fitness
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The OP is in Italy, I’m sure any NFL references will fly right over his head.
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Yeah definitely lol
Rofl, I’m such a dumbass. Anyways, the point is relax. Do you speak Baggio? Damnit you’re prolly to young haha
Personally, I would not make out with anyone I would not also very likely have sex with. By the time I kiss someone romantically, I’m considering sex.
On the other hand, a dick in your mouth is a dick in your mouth. A kiss is not a dick in your mouth. Something to consider is that you’re asking girls not committed to your happiness (as they would presumably be in a relationship) to put a dick in their mouths. I know that you’re not committed to their happiness, either, but…surely some thought to whether your dick in their mouths is good for them is in order.
Yes. Your decision is about the kind of man you want to be. That’s really my only point.
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I know really we’re discussing me here, but I can’t help but think that if a girl allowed me to put my dick in her mouth, she likely already made those considerations herself and has come to the conclusion that it might be good for her…
I’m never going to be able to think about this subject the same way again. 
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Why not? You didn’t strike me as the thoughtless type using emotional manipulation to get hummers from girls with self esteem issues.
He’s saying I made him sad and sick in a way that may transfer over to even the righteous encounters. He’s wishing I’d never opened my mouth, so to speak, so he could live the happy life that was formerly his. I have that unfortunate effect on people sometimes. It’s my cross to bear, but also theirs.
Let me just reiterate that oral sex is sexy and fun because you know how good it feels. Arousing someone else is arousing. It just shouldn’t be indiscriminate, IMO, and you should understand what it is you’re asking. It’s not the same as “hey, pass me a piece of that gum, would you?” It’s not the bodies that are gross, it’s the behavior.
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