[quote]zecarlo wrote:
[quote]NickViar wrote:
[quote]Powerpuff wrote:
So many things struck a cord with me in that article.
She talks about the lack of military experience/diminished status of military service in the elite class now. “The entire elite class now, in finance, in politics and so on, none of them have military service - hardly anyone, there are a few. But there is no prestige attached to it anymore. …These people don’t think in military ways, so there’s this illusion out there that people are basically nice, people are basically kind, if we’re just nice and benevolent to everyone they’ll be nice too. They literally don’t have any sense of evil or criminality.”
I’ve thought about that quote all morning. I think she’s right about the idea that benevolent “do unto others diplomacy” only works when you are dealing with the good guys.
Regarding the military - My son is 18. He has one friend who is in his first year at the Air Force Academy (his dad is a career air force pilot). One friend got into West Point but decided to head to Princeton instead. How many friends does he have in the military, or who are planning to serve when they graduate? Exactly zero. Related, my husband has actually sat in on discussions about hiring people (with female management) where military service was viewed as a possible negative - as in might be too aggressive.
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Has the author lived underground for the past decade? Military worship is rammed down citizens’ throats everywhere we go. Most of the citizens of this country fear EVERY OTHER country. Most believe that cutting a penny from the defense budget will result in brown and yellow people conquering us in a matter of hours.[/quote]
You completely missed the point in your quest to be contrary. It’s not that military people are not respected (although even that varies) but that it isn’t seen as something prestigious for those she refers to as the elite. [/quote]
That’s how I understood it too. She’s concerned about the people who are running the country in terms of both politics and business. In terms of military participation/ attitudes, you are going to see regional, and certainly socioeconomic differences.
Sorry to threadjack my own thread. It’s really not about the military, it was just one of the things that stood out, probably because I hadn’t given a lot of thought before.
Some of the topics covered in the article I’d thought about a lot more. Especially raising boys/ the shortcomings of primary education.
Also, how to handle issues such as the female “reproductive disadvantage” - Paglia’s very straightforward on that one, which was refreshing. It’s something that comes up all the time. Just this past week I was talking to a friend at the gym I lift at, and she was agonizing about when to start having kids. She’s 27, recently married to a guy who has a great career, but she’s currently pursuing a PhD and wants to post doc abroad. I often hear about how “lucky” I am from young women like this, but of course it’s often just a matter of choices.