[quote]ephrem wrote:
[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]ephrem wrote:
Females with Down’s do occasionally give birth, but it’s rare so the impact on the gene pool is minimal.
I’d like to comment on the last sentence of your post. Wouldn’t the reverse be true aswell? If a couple wants to have a child it’s because it’s believed that the child will have a positive impact on their own lives.
I find that selfish aswell.
And why is it wrong to want a healthy child instead of a special-needs child? If I had any paternal instincts, being who I am, I wouldn’t want a special-needs child.
I would not force my partner to abort the pregnancy though.
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Everybody wants a healthy child, but that isn’t always the case. Picking and choosing who gets to live based on the judgement of whether they have good or bad genes smacks sickeningly close to the stance of the 3rd Riech. That’s engineering the species. There is nothing natual about our species, modern medicine has provided the weak the ability to live. Many of us, myself included, would not be here today were it not for the intervention of modern medicine. There is nothing natural about our evolution. We have given the physically weak the ability to survive, procreate and thrive. So we can fucking forget propagating for the good of the species. That ship sailed long ago.
Wanting a child for your own happiness is for really stupid, and selfish people. Healthy children are a pain in the ass much less special needs. Wanting a child is no where near as selfish as killing one because they don’t meet your standards.
Here’s a trick question, would you rather have a healthy child that grows up and murders and rapes, or a down’s child who grows up happy and healthy?
I know several families who have a down’s person in it and I can tell you that for those families, those down’s kids are a constant source of joy. They may be mentally retarded, but they love unconditionally, are always happy and much easier to make happy and they don’t worry about the same menial bullshit we concern ourselves with. [/quote]
Why have children if you don’t think it’ll make you happy[r]?
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They do actually make you happy, but they are a royal pain in the ass daily. I always describe it to people as the biggest pain in the ass you will ever love. If your having kids for the specific purpose of thinking you will be happier, you won’t be. That line of thinking indicates you have issues and having a child will compound them, not alleviate them.
Having children is an intrinsic human need. The obvious reason is that that wiring is what causes us to propagate the species. Though an individual level, it’s difficult to understand why. I can tell you that the experience of parenthood is unique and impossible to describe. It’s something you have to live to understand.
We’re not playing God by ‘allowing’ people with weak genes to procreate. We are saving lives with medicine and those lives happen to go on living and procreating. It’s a side effect of modern medicine. I don’t suppose your going to let you mother or sister die when she could be helped for the good of the gene pool?
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To answer your question; I’d rather not have children, healthy or otherwise.
Now I don’t doubt that many people with Down’s syndrome are happy and are a source of joy for those involved. I don’t think that’s the issue though.
If I had the technological ability to screen my genes and my partner’s genes carried by my sperm and her eggs and sort the best ones, brings them together and have a child that way, knowing it will have my best genes and my partner’s best genes, I’d be all for it.
It’s a crap shoot anyway so why not make the best of it?[/quote]
Correct it’s a crap shoot in which direct meddling seldom yields a good result much less the desired result. Most genes aren’t ‘good’ or ‘bad’ they are just something or something else. And there is no way to tell what fucking with them will ultimately yield. However, if I could prevent or cure a genetic defect in utero I would, but I wouldn’t kill the kid if I couldn’t. That’s just horrible.
The hypothetical didn’t really have the third option, but you didn’t want to answer it, so whatever.