[quote]Buff HardBack wrote:
B.L.U. Ninja wrote:
To put this thing in perspective and to reiterate my point, I think that the father’s reaction to this is no different than other people’s culture/religion. It’s a fucked up “cultural thing” and I think we can all agree to that, but look at muslims, jews, asians and other ethnicities who come to America/Canada. They still keep most, if not all of their cultural beliefs. Muslims still practice ramadan, jews celebrate hanukkah and so on…
Point is, and I’m not defending the fucked up logic of the victim’s father, that if you came from a different country and practice a VERY different culture for as long as he probably did, this shit gets stuck and you live by that for the rest of your life.
Now, let’s say a Liberian kid grew up in the states and spent practically his whole life in America and HIS daughter was victimized by the same thing. Would he have done what the father have done? Chances are, he wouldn’t because HE grew up in America and is used to American culture.
What I’m trying to say here is, IT is one of the most fucked up thing I’ve ever came across but it is no different than being a Muslim or being American.
How about for a second we forget about which culture they came from. Wouldnt the simple fact that they are human beings who, at the very least, should have a sense of morality make them react in a very different way? I mean shouldnt it be a basic animal instinct to want to protect your offspring and do harm to anyone who harms them?
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I agree. Don’t take it that I’m in any way trying to rationalize what the father did in this situation. I think the tool should be jailed along with the kids that did this shit, what I’m trying to say is if you grew up in a different place and grew up in a culture as fucked up as it may have been, your instinct is gonna tell you to go back to that.
What do Christians do when they sense danger? What do traditional women in the muslim religion wear even when they migrate to America? It’s tradition. It’s culture. No matter what we say or do, it’s not gonna change. It’s fucked up for us because most of us never even heard of this shit. But do you think Liberians are reacting the same way we are? No. Because they would do the same thing too.
It’s like trying to tell a hardcore racist to try interracial dating. It’s just not gonna happen. It ain’t gonna change man. It’s fucked up. But that’s them.