[quote]UtahLama wrote:
[quote]CappedAndPlanIt wrote:
[quote]UtahLama wrote:
Depends on where you were, if you were in Atlanta I am guessing it would have been a different story.
The ONLY point I am trying to make in this whole damn thread is…Other races are just as racist as whites…it’s never ok to be racist…[/quote]
And I agree. However, no other race benefits from racism in the way whites do. To ignore that fact is to ignore the entire context of any raciacally charged event.
We get to spend our whole lives being assumed to be intelligent, peaceful, competent people. When was the last time someone seemed surprised when you used a big word? [/quote]
We agree.
But I think that your second statement has more to do with culture than anything else…the black kids I played football with in college had to hide any overt intelligence as to not be labeled a “Uncle Tom college boy” by their fiends back home.
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I hope you can see, then, why a black person “being racist” while being equally wrong, is met with different responses than when a white person does it.
You get called cracker. It doesnt really bother you that much - because you spend your life not constantly worried that people are judging you poorly based on your race, cops dont expect you to be a criminal, store owners dont pay “extra attention” to you, people dont call you a “well spoken white guy” as though its uncommon, you dont have to worry about other members of your race seeing you as a traitor, or that members of other races being involved with you would be seen as a step down for them. You probably dont think about race that much.
The reverse is true for black people in America. All those factors breed sensitivity and, yes, oversensitivity. So it really bothers them to be called a nigger.
Feelings and reactions are not arbitrary. A black person cannot “just shrug it off” the way you or I can.