[quote]ephrem wrote:
This is not about you, what you think, what you want and what you believe. You are not in a better position, just because you’re male, to make judgment calls about sexuality than females.
I know it’s hard to accept for you Chris, but you’re not in control here.
And that’s the issue that really drives these discussions: the issue of control. You sugarcoat it by saying, “think of the children!”, but in the end you and your ilk can’t stand to see women making decisions independent of men.[/quote]
I find your insinuation lacking in evidence and quite humorous. I am a realist, you can talk arbitrarily about woman’s freedom provided by post-modern thought. However, all I see is that women have turned in marriage for sexual bondage, that of modern concubinage. Though they lack the benefits of concubines of past, I would say.
The only one who is having a hard time is you, my fellow. You are scared that your post-modern thinking has no ground. Well it doesn’t, I am afraid to inform you. Moreover, I will not sit here and accept something that has only sat in the halls of academia for less than 200 years, when I hold in my hands something that has held the test of time since antiquity.
I think it is absurd that you make such claims, when all you and your ilk have done is produce a bondage of all people and pat them on the back with a cry for your hard won ‘freedom.’ And, all on their way to self-destruction.
When women started, they wanted freedom and they wanted to be equal to men. What they failed to realise is that to be equal to men, they would have to lower themselves to man’s level. In the process they gained no dignity, no respect from their counter parts. In fact, from the majority of men they lost respect. Modern man in general holds not for a moments notice that he may have to sacrifice and work for a woman. It is there for the taking and because there is no sacrifice he throws it like his weekly garbage.
To say I want to control women is absurd. Want I want is for women to respect themselves as much as I respect them. All I see in this ‘freedom’ is exploitation, and usually not equal exploitation.