Go into the PWO forums and you’ll see a shitload of right-wing crybabies… of all ages. That’s why I stopped going there. I was a afraid I’d drown in all their tears.
lol
[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:
Go into the PWO forums and you’ll see a shitload of right-wing crybabies… of all ages. That’s why I stopped going there. I was a afraid I’d drown in all their tears.
lol[/quote]
Cheap shot. As if the left hasn’t been crying for the last 8 years. Still crying about it, actually.
BTW, I’ve never actually seen the “post work out” (?) forum.
[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:
Go into the PWO forums and you’ll see a shitload of right-wing crybabies… of all ages. That’s why I stopped going there. I was a afraid I’d drown in all their tears.
lol[/quote]
for sure, i’ve just ventured to the forum, its awesome
I’m going to make posts and give them the goth view on the world- Lights out!
very nice avatar buy the wy my brother
Essentially, aren’t we all cry babies. When that girl I’ve been messaging for 5 months turns out to be a guy, I hurt on the inside.
Who else could I turn to? Not my wife. She’ll kick my ass for e-flirting with a dude.
Not my friends. They’ll make fun of me for e-flirting with a dude AND using the internet.
I know! T-Nation. This is the place where men can share hopes, dreams, fears, and nightmares. You guys are the Internet version of Dr.Phil.
(Fucking Cry-Babies)
[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:
Go into the PWO forums and you’ll see a shitload of right-wing crybabies… of all ages. That’s why I stopped going there. I was a afraid I’d drown in all their tears.
lol[/quote]
for sure, i’ve just ventured to the forum, its awesome
I’m going to make posts and give them the goth view on the world- Lights out!
very nice avatar buy the wy my brother
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
Iron Dwarf wrote:
Go into the PWO forums and you’ll see a shitload of right-wing crybabies… of all ages. That’s why I stopped going there. I was a afraid I’d drown in all their tears.
lol
Cheap shot. As if the left hasn’t been crying for the last 8 years. Still crying about it, actually.
BTW, I’ve never actually seen the “post work out” (?) forum.
;)[/quote]
PWO stands for Paleoconservatives Warning about Obama.
Or “whining,” depending on your political persuasion.
[quote]malonetd wrote:
AlexD wrote:
Hehe good point (both of you).
On the other hand, I think that the ones posting about such situations are also helping indirectly other ppl who might be (now or one day) in the same situation, at least by knowing they’re not the only ones.
Then we’ve created a sad, sad world when this many people are looking for solutions to life’s problems over the internet.[/quote]
There’s nothing wrong with seeking advice with life’s issues over the internet in anonymity. There’s a stigma attached to turning to the internet for help, but it’s the most vast, ever-changing informational source in the world
And this tough guy attitude is bullshit. Life’s fucking complex and a lot of people don’t have anybody to turn to.
[quote]Artem wrote:
Life’s fucking complex and a lot of people don’t have anybody to turn to.[/quote]
THIS is the sad part. EVERYONE should have people in their life they can talk to. If you don’t, find someone. Someone that actually cares about you. I gaurantee you it will be much more useful than the crap advice you see in these forums.
A human being should be capable of forming real relationships that are NOT based on anonymity. If you can’t do that, then your problems lie much deeper than how your girlfriend just dumped you.
[quote]Artem wrote:
There’s nothing wrong with seeking advice with life’s issues over the internet in anonymity. There’s a stigma attached to turning to the internet for help, but it’s the most vast, ever-changing informational source in the world
And this tough guy attitude is bullshit. [/quote]
And listen man, I understand you’re a young guy (15 or so?) and I’m glad you realize you don’t have all the answers. Hell, at 15 I thought I had them all. But it is really YOU who is pulling a tough guy attitude because you can’t open up and voice your problems to the real people in your life. I understand voicing problems with people like your parents, friends, other family members can be a little embarrassing and awkward, but trust me, they care about you much more than we do. They have much more vested in the advice they give and the decisions you make.
So quit being a tough guy and give your parents a hug.
I like this saying, A little redneck , but still like it “I am going to have to tie oily rags around your ankles , so the ants don’t eat your candy ass”
[quote]waldo21212 wrote:
Damn, I thought this was going to be a thread about the crybabies gum, and I was going to say argue that tearjerkers is better anyway.[/quote]
Warheads for the win.
[quote]Artem wrote:
malonetd wrote:
AlexD wrote:
Hehe good point (both of you).
On the other hand, I think that the ones posting about such situations are also helping indirectly other ppl who might be (now or one day) in the same situation, at least by knowing they’re not the only ones.
Then we’ve created a sad, sad world when this many people are looking for solutions to life’s problems over the internet.
There’s nothing wrong with seeking advice with life’s issues over the internet in anonymity. There’s a stigma attached to turning to the internet for help, but it’s the most vast, ever-changing informational source in the world
And this tough guy attitude is bullshit. Life’s fucking complex and a lot of people don’t have anybody to turn to.[/quote]
Even if you did have someone to turn to, the internet is a huge resource advantage. Instead of telling the same story to 5 of my closest confidents, or doing a group pow-pow which would just be gay. I can make a single post and have hundreds if not thousands of people, with experience and advice, read it and respond if they feel they have something to share. From that point i’m doing the same thing with the information as I would if I got it from a close friend or relative, think about it and make my own decision. Nobody is going to just do whatever thier buddy or dad or uncle tells them, if they do they are just retarded. So it’s all about gaining knowledge though others experiences, and applying that knowledge to the best of your ability to the situation at hand. Thats called wisdom.
Maybe someone comes on here aksing for help of some kind, gets his balls busted and gets so put off by it that he stops using the internet, and goes out in disgust and finds real people to bitch to about his new problem, those assholes on the internet.
In my view people need to get the fuck off thier high horse, stop trying to label, judge and otherwise be a dick about what other people do. Fucking focus on what you can control, and let the rest of the shit play like a movie. Enjoy it, even the sad parts, the scary parts, the annoying parts, the funny parts. Enjoy all of it for it’s randomness, it’s variety. Fuck if everyone was just like you, the world would be the biggest suck ass place in the history of suckdom. Yea, it would be that bad.
V
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
Artem wrote:
There’s nothing wrong with seeking advice with life’s issues over the internet in anonymity. There’s a stigma attached to turning to the internet for help, but it’s the most vast, ever-changing informational source in the world
And this tough guy attitude is bullshit.
And listen man, I understand you’re a young guy (15 or so?) and I’m glad you realize you don’t have all the answers. Hell, at 15 I thought I had them all. But it is really YOU who is pulling a tough guy attitude because you can’t open up and voice your problems to the real people in your life. I understand voicing problems with people like your parents, friends, other family members can be a little embarrassing and awkward, but trust me, they care about you much more than we do. They have much more vested in the advice they give and the decisions you make.
So quit being a tough guy and give your parents a hug.[/quote]
I’m 16 and I’m not the one talking about my issues on the internet. I’m just posting about other people who do it.
And “find somebody” is horrible advice. Who the hell am I supposed to “find?” Or, who the hell is somebody who needs help supposed to “find,” because I’m not in need of finding anybody.
Some people don’t even want answers. They just want to vent. Some people do want advice and why the fuck not ask on the internet? As long as you can filter bad advice, good advice, and squats and milk advice.
[quote]Vegita wrote:
Artem wrote:
malonetd wrote:
AlexD wrote:
Hehe good point (both of you).
On the other hand, I think that the ones posting about such situations are also helping indirectly other ppl who might be (now or one day) in the same situation, at least by knowing they’re not the only ones.
Then we’ve created a sad, sad world when this many people are looking for solutions to life’s problems over the internet.
There’s nothing wrong with seeking advice with life’s issues over the internet in anonymity. There’s a stigma attached to turning to the internet for help, but it’s the most vast, ever-changing informational source in the world
And this tough guy attitude is bullshit. Life’s fucking complex and a lot of people don’t have anybody to turn to.
Even if you did have someone to turn to, the internet is a huge resource advantage. Instead of telling the same story to 5 of my closest confidents, or doing a group pow-pow which would just be gay. I can make a single post and have hundreds if not thousands of people, with experience and advice, read it and respond if they feel they have something to share. From that point i’m doing the same thing with the information as I would if I got it from a close friend or relative, think about it and make my own decision. Nobody is going to just do whatever thier buddy or dad or uncle tells them, if they do they are just retarded. So it’s all about gaining knowledge though others experiences, and applying that knowledge to the best of your ability to the situation at hand. Thats called wisdom.
Maybe someone comes on here aksing for help of some kind, gets his balls busted and gets so put off by it that he stops using the internet, and goes out in disgust and finds real people to bitch to about his new problem, those assholes on the internet.
In my view people need to get the fuck off thier high horse, stop trying to label, judge and otherwise be a dick about what other people do. Fucking focus on what you can control, and let the rest of the shit play like a movie. Enjoy it, even the sad parts, the scary parts, the annoying parts, the funny parts. Enjoy all of it for it’s randomness, it’s variety. Fuck if everyone was just like you, the world would be the biggest suck ass place in the history of suckdom. Yea, it would be that bad.
V
[/quote]
Well, disregarding the fact that the last half of your post was completely random and off topic, you really think that if people have serious problems, internet forums are a good place to turn?
So, if I have depression, you want me to confess this on an internet forum where some douchebag like myself can tell me I’m a loser and I need some real friends? Yeah, that will surely help my depression.
People need real friends. Sen say is a swell guy but I’d be pretty disappointed if he showed up on my doorstep with a suitcase telling me he needed some money and a place to stay.
[quote]Artem wrote:
And “find somebody” is horrible advice. Who the hell am I supposed to “find?” Or, who the hell is somebody who needs help supposed to “find,” because I’m not in need of finding anybody.
[/quote]
My point is that people shouldn’t go through life without anyone to turn to in any time of need. If the internet is the only place you can turn, you’re 217% more likely to go postal and shoot up a shopping mall. It’s science.
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
Artem wrote:
And “find somebody” is horrible advice. Who the hell am I supposed to “find?” Or, who the hell is somebody who needs help supposed to “find,” because I’m not in need of finding anybody.
My point is that people shouldn’t go through life without anyone to turn to in any time of need. If the internet is the only place you can turn, you’re 217% more likely to go postal and shoot up a shopping mall. It’s science.[/quote]
Okay they shouldn’t, but they do. It’s not always a choice. I don’t even know what your argument is anymore.
I don’t think the problem is that people bitch on the internet so much as the fact that they are completely unwilling to do anything to better their situation if it means admitting that they aren’t perfect.
We’ve had people post about how no one likes them, they can’t make friends, people refuse to hang out with them and tell them to their face that they are rude. But instead of realizing. “Hey, maybe I am rude and that’s why EVERYONE dislikes me…” they just decide that everyone in the whole wide world is insecure in the face of their awesomeness…
Fuck those people, if they refuse to learn how to interact socially with others and modify their behaviors to get the results they want then they deserve to be fucking miserable.
It’s like those douchebags who come on here bitching and whining about how they can’t gain weight when they eat TONS of boneless, skinless chicken breast and steamed broccoli. Then they sneer at anyone who advises them to maybe eat something besides chicken and broccoli and bring up all kinds of reasons why their way is so superior and works so much better.
Then they come back in 6 months to do the same goddamn thing when they haven’t gained any weight.
Every time I see on of these posts asking for help, I wait and when the pompous arrogant shitbag starts responding to helpful, thoughtful advice with “Well, ACTUALLY…” or “No, that can’t be it because…” I cheer a little bit that his life sucks. I’ve had to deal with tools like that in person and I’m glad that they are as miserable as they make everyone around them.
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
Vegita wrote:
Artem wrote:
malonetd wrote:
AlexD wrote:
Hehe good point (both of you).
On the other hand, I think that the ones posting about such situations are also helping indirectly other ppl who might be (now or one day) in the same situation, at least by knowing they’re not the only ones.
Then we’ve created a sad, sad world when this many people are looking for solutions to life’s problems over the internet.
There’s nothing wrong with seeking advice with life’s issues over the internet in anonymity. There’s a stigma attached to turning to the internet for help, but it’s the most vast, ever-changing informational source in the world
And this tough guy attitude is bullshit. Life’s fucking complex and a lot of people don’t have anybody to turn to.
Even if you did have someone to turn to, the internet is a huge resource advantage. Instead of telling the same story to 5 of my closest confidents, or doing a group pow-pow which would just be gay. I can make a single post and have hundreds if not thousands of people, with experience and advice, read it and respond if they feel they have something to share. From that point i’m doing the same thing with the information as I would if I got it from a close friend or relative, think about it and make my own decision. Nobody is going to just do whatever thier buddy or dad or uncle tells them, if they do they are just retarded. So it’s all about gaining knowledge though others experiences, and applying that knowledge to the best of your ability to the situation at hand. Thats called wisdom.
Maybe someone comes on here aksing for help of some kind, gets his balls busted and gets so put off by it that he stops using the internet, and goes out in disgust and finds real people to bitch to about his new problem, those assholes on the internet.
In my view people need to get the fuck off thier high horse, stop trying to label, judge and otherwise be a dick about what other people do. Fucking focus on what you can control, and let the rest of the shit play like a movie. Enjoy it, even the sad parts, the scary parts, the annoying parts, the funny parts. Enjoy all of it for it’s randomness, it’s variety. Fuck if everyone was just like you, the world would be the biggest suck ass place in the history of suckdom. Yea, it would be that bad.
V
Well, disregarding the fact that the last half of your post was completely random and off topic, you really think that if people have serious problems, internet forums are a good place to turn?
So, if I have depression, you want me to confess this on an internet forum where some douchebag like myself can tell me I’m a loser and I need some real friends? Yeah, that will surely help my depression.
People need real friends. Sen say is a swell guy but I’d be pretty disappointed if he showed up on my doorstep with a suitcase telling me he needed some money and a place to stay. [/quote]
My apologies if you didn’t understand the last part of my previous post. Makes sense to me, anyways, we have different outlooks, I for one would certainly offer any help I could to Sen Say, should he show up on my doorstep with a suitcase. Would it be everything he is looking for? who knows, but I would do the best I could. And you know what, it wouldn’t feel weird, or scary or anything. Sen Say is just as real as any other human, as are you, so just because we have written discorse over the internet does not mean we shed all of our humanity. Is my online persona identical to my real life one? I think thats impossible. I have to communicate online without the help of facial expressions (emoticans be damned) and body language, so I have to find creative ways to get whatever i’m thinking into an understandable written format. That may cause me to use more colorful language than I would in real life, or it may cause me to add in extra silly shit, whatever, at the core, Vegita and his master hitting the keypad are the same fucking people.
I can’t tell you how much useful information I have pulled from the internet over the years. Just yesterday I researched different ways to wire up a home theater system in the walls of my house. I got several different techniques, and I decided on on that was attractive both visually, acoustically and cost effectively. Why draw a line where information stops being useful. This is where your judgement comes in, you have decided that someone seeking personal advice will not be useful, where I may decide that I can find useful information on the very topics you think I cannot. So in reality it doesn’t really matter what you think, it only matters what the person doing the asking thinks. And to complain about what someone else is doing, which is out of your control, is in my opinion, being a bigger crybaby than those who you are taking your stand against. I wish you would accept other forms of thought than your own.
V
[quote]Vegita wrote:
And to complain about what someone else is doing, which is out of your control, is in my opinion, being a bigger crybaby than those who you are taking your stand against. I wish you would accept other forms of thought than your own.
V[/quote]
Solid post overall but I’m actually not complaining. In reality, many of these threads tend to be hilarious. And my ranting about these threads is really just an attempt to help these fools realize that real healthy relationships may be just what the doctor ordered.
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
Vegita wrote:
And to complain about what someone else is doing, which is out of your control, is in my opinion, being a bigger crybaby than those who you are taking your stand against. I wish you would accept other forms of thought than your own.
V
Solid post overall but I’m actually not complaining. In reality, many of these threads tend to be hilarious. And my ranting about these threads is really just an attempt to help these fools realize that real healthy relationships may be just what the doctor ordered. [/quote]
Understood, and I think your input does in fact add much value to many threads. And perhaps just maybe you were playing a little bit of devils advocate, and I read into that and made my response to you but was hoping other people would read it and take that message home. You know kinda like a good cop bad cop sctick. Or something like that. Also it is entirely possible that i’m some rediculously delusional person who just comes on here spewing random thoughts out that sometimes berley resemble rational thought. You just never know.
V