[quote]forlife wrote:
orion wrote:
See, the problem is that you demand fairness and distributive from a government and I understand that-
the problem is though that that includes entitlements that I think no one should have, no matter what their sexual preferences are.
As I see it, the question is whether the “entitlements” provide a large enough return to justify the investment.
Does society benefit significantly from rewarding and holding people accountable for maintaining stable family relationships? I think so. It is good for children, good for the couple, and good for society at large.
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That is classic utilitarian reasoning and it does not work.
The reason is that there is no way of measuring whether society benefits or not, because that would require the cardinality and inter-subjective comparability of utility functions.
All such reasoning leaves as with is the attempt to rob from each other by pretending to “benefit society”, and that is not enough to justify what would be called “theft” by a less “enlightened” ethical system.
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It’s more than that, though. Equal rights for gays isn’t just about “entitlements”. It is about having fundamental and fair access to hospitals, employment, etc. The guy that sits next to me at work was with his partner for 25 years and had done all the legal work, but when his partner had a heart attack he was denied visitation rights and had to wait for his partner’s father to arrive and grant permission. That is wrong and should be fixed. [/quote]
Well, that is wrong and should be fixed and private contracts are a great way to do that.
I deny however that you have a “right” to hold a job with a corresponding duty for someone else to give you one just because you are gay.
I think gays and lesbians would make a great partner in a libertarian “leave me alone”-coalition, alas they do not want less government tits but more so that they can suck on them too.
In the end not everyone that is against large parts of your agenda is so because he is homophobic , I would also be against them if they furthered any other agenda.