If you read history you can find several examples of women fighting for their rights, being strong leaders, commanding armies, defending their country (or assaulting other).
Just to say some powerful women figures in history who have fought either figuratively or actually fought:
Sufragettes in Britain, Katherine the Great, Jingū, Kleopatra and Hapsetsup, Thatcher, Nzinga, Ching Shih.
We could talk about matriarchal societies, like some Celtic/Germanic tribes in Ancient Rome’s time. Or women warriors throught history, like Onna Mushis, or how women rights were formed by women and men in Finland.
Turns out women can to much more than have kids and nag.
I’ve used this same argument against feminists who claim that there would be no wars etc. if women would rule the world. Well, no. Women seem to be as capable to fight, lead, murder and do wars as men (not surprisingly).
And we could say that majority of women have not taken power or fought for their rights. Well, majority of men have not either.
Ps. Also, the choice words was interesting. If you defend your rights/freedom/whatever nonviolently as a male you don’t nag or complain, but I guess there’s no options for women.