So men are assholes after all?
I love this version of you !
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Most good ones know how and when to be an asshole, which is part of what I like about Trump.
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You just figuring that out….we always were
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Me too.
But my daughter wouldn’t.
We don’t have to be. I think that’s downplaying our sex.
”Men will be men” or the assumption that we will just constantly fuck anything sounds stupid. Men are not childs, or should not be.
Maybe. But not ”fucking underages in Epstein island” -type of asshole I presume?
Wait. Women don’t like giving BJs?
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They’ve got a “no scrubs” policy.
They like giving them to men they lust after.
I will happily talk about my family and my experiences. One of the impacts of my parents’ choices is a deep mistrust in others, unfortunately. My kids’ dad didn’t do anything to ameliorate that. I’ve been a SAHM. Ask me how much I love my career and my independence.
I would also say that my sons would agree with me if I were to say that I’m more level-headed and less emotionally driven than their father. There were a lot of positives there, but safe to rely on wasn’t one of them, despite his making good money.
Lastly, I’m sorry if I did anything to push you into a bad headspace. I’ve been enjoying your log and the contest prep!
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Some definitely do, but this can be offset by some rather unusual demands for extraordinarily performative sex on a Tuesday night when you’re just trying to get some rest for the next big day.
They’re tied to respect and liking, happily or unhappily, depending on how you run your game. After a day of nagging another adult to clean up after himself, does a girl really feel the bj tingles? Probably not.
Some of the posters in here would say that she’s looking for a criminal or someone with money, but I would say that she’s looking for someone she respects as a partner and who makes her feel liked and respected.
Super simple, really. Not sure why it’s so elusive for some.
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It’s no secret or inaccurate to say way too many women choose objectively awful men. The dark triad of traits is irresistible.
We see far too often what they say they want =/= who they choose
Unemployed low level dope dealers that look like they eat cigarettes and have scratcher tatts are irresistible to them
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This has been the story of about half of the local baddies I met working bar security. Some are in their 30s now living a WAY different life than when they were young and hot.
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True. Probably other way around too.
I would never be interested about woman who is crying after guy with scumbag traits.
I personally think there’s way many behavior patterns and traits attached to sex in this discussion. There are some, no doubt. But not all women or men are the same.
We are not guided by our insticts like mindless beasts. Or if you are, how much humanity there’s left?
I’m definitely guilty of it in the past
Ran through…. tsk tsk
Right! Kettle, meet your perfectly matched pot!
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Biological impulses if not kept in check can be detrimental… i DO understand; biologically speaking, what the appeal is about criminals and scum bags but they make awful fathers
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Agree. Controlling these has been the key in building societies.
Like if we all would be having these conversation in a pub, things might get heated, but me and @Andrewgen_Receptors would not beat each others to death because we disagree on something.
What exactly? Danger? It does not really fit with evolutionary purposes of breeding.
If we reduce this to biology, usually the strongest, smartest and most skilled males are the valued ones.