Totally agree, imagine having to ejaculate on command, being told “gotta pump for 2 hours before you can finish, and then… you finish on our terms”, then the sheer physical exhaustion form pumping away with ferocious force for hours on end (many takes) must be exhausting. Then you have to KEEP an erection, I’d imagine from blowjobs the woman would get tired and a lot of teeth would be involved at that point. Then there’s the awkward positions that only look good on camera. You’d never know how terrible/soulcrushingly boring filming is until you’ve been an extra/actor within a film
But I guess the thing about porn is that it can keep things spicey in the bedroom?
Not really. It just creates unrealistic expectations from either side, usually the male’s side. Not to mention desensitisation to the real thing. Most porn models are perfect, with porn you can literally search for your “perfect” woman, when it comes to the real thing it just isnt the same. You could say due to hyperstimulation by porn also alters brain chemistry and the dopamine rush you feel.
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Perhaps you are correct. But over the long-term, I am not sure how sex can continue to be fun unless you are willing to spice things up? I can imagine simple missionary gets a bit boring after a while haha.
If you have been together long, you trust each other, so diving into more kinkier/hardcore acts shouldn’t be too much of a problem.
Yeah I agree with you there. It could lead to disappointment though if she disagrees and you’re left saying “but alexis texas took 3 toys in the ass, why cant you?”
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xD haha. I am more a fan of Adriana Cheknek. OMG if I could have one hour with her.
But yes, you are correct. Not sure many girls are open to having all three holes stuffed full.
Oh sorry I’ve been off porn for a few years now, maybe Alexis Texas has even retired I dont know but she was active back then.
Each to their own I guess, I did do a lot of research on porn and its neurological effects which made it stop it all together. Would be a informative to look into it so you can find out whats going on within you.
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what was your background? Sounds like you have a neuroscience background?
I actually did neuroscience for my undergrad, with a major in pharmacology.
Never thought I would be my own lab rat haha
My background is genetics (but interested more so in epigenetics) and endocrinology but have always been interested in neuroscience, its complexity mainly.
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I hated genetics at university. But its good to have degrees in this stuff.
That’s why amateur (involving real couples) and/or feminist centred porn exists, which is mostly the stuff I watch. However in which case (the feminist centred stuff) the perfect body ideology is reversed, and the MEN have perfect, washboard abs, broad shoulders, large penises (present in normal porn too), extremely handsome facial features, perfectly manscaped bodies all over etc.
The dopaminergic dysfunction induced by long term and/or excessive use of pornography is concerning. I tend to be in denial instead and continually, frequently watch and tell myself there isn’t enough research (there isn’t) but come on… we know it’s not good for you, not as bad as steroid usage though. That and I have no trouble getting it up without porn and/or in general.
Sooo does it pay well? Asking for a friend
Depends what you consider well, and depends what you’re willing to do. Gay pornography will pay quite a bit.
eeh nevermind
Sorry, rereading I can see how you would take it harshly. Its just funny to us older folks to see somebody your age call a 26 year old ‘not young’. I mean based solely on these posts you can read a level of immaturity regarding the opposite sex. Live and let live though… my apologies for not making it more light hearted. There are few teenagers that have my respect and you are one of them.
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Yes, I have very little experience in relation to interactions with members of the opposites sex, less than most (#autism). I have a couple terrible experiences from a couple awkward dates and whatnot and two very, very, VERY good experiences.
Well, tell the class your story.
I was an extra in some short film when I was much younger (not disclosing film name)… super boring having to wait around for hours on end, multiple reshoots etc. Made 100$ though woot!!
$100 was a lot when I was a teenager. You’re still a teenager so ‘much younger’ and whew thats a lotta dolla.
Was probably about 11. To me, 100$ isn’t my much, that’s about the amount it’s costs for me to refill my car with a full tank of gas. So I need my moneyzzz
Gas is very expensive here I assume, as everything is expensive in Aus
If I go see a movie (ticket + popcorn and unhealthy drink) that’s around 50$
Go out to eat 50-100$
Go to a club with friends 40$ (Don’t do this often, Entry fee is typically like 20$, a singular beer is like 10-15$)
Buy clothes 50-100$
Weed (jokes… #notjokes) 50-70$
Haircuts like 30$