[quote]G.House wrote:
Lately as both men and women we have worried to much anout what others think and the fear of being alone. No this is not some religous spew. Our society has place the norm as what the masses are doing. well, i for one think thats a load of crap.
we as human being only answer to one person ourselves. we must ask ourselves id f what we do sits with us. as for being alone, we are never alone. i have found out recently that less you acutally care what people think or feel the better you feel.
i mean i have an ex-wife, i tried being pleasent for a couple of years (no luck), she thout me being nice was a sign of weakness. the only people that anyone needs is family. people will come to you when you distant yourself. now never live like a hermit, you know what they say about the quiet ones. [/quote]
I know what you mean. I was alone once when I was younger and I was despairing, because I wasn’t sure what others were feeling. Then, at some point, I realized that I wasn’t really alone because there were others there with me. Since we were all there, together being alone, we had company. It’s as if somebody said something and then it was all different.
[quote]G.House wrote:
Lately as both men and women we have worried to much anout what others think and the fear of being alone. No this is not some religous spew. Our society has place the norm as what the masses are doing. well, i for one think thats a load of crap.
we as human being only answer to one person ourselves. we must ask ourselves id f what we do sits with us. as for being alone, we are never alone. i have found out recently that less you acutally care what people think or feel the better you feel.
i mean i have an ex-wife, i tried being pleasent for a couple of years (no luck), she thout me being nice was a sign of weakness. the only people that anyone needs is family. people will come to you when you distant yourself. now never live like a hermit, you know what they say about the quiet ones. [/quote]
There are times when I still feel genuinely lonely- but it is not a constant state of mind. I attribute this to natural waves of emotions w/ in our emotional cycle. Often once I realize something painful, seeing it for what it is, I am a bit more solemn in that facet of life. The buddha lol was wise in his understanding of aloneness.
In todays society there is a great emphasis put on marriages, relationships, and sex. That it actually feels unnatural to be alone. By reversing our conditioned states we can see the underlying foundation. We are all individual being, with individual minds, thoughts, and actions.
However, we are each a key to the collective whole of existence which binds us together as one orb of energy . . To be alone in a world of togetherness is the ultimate balance. Understand what I’m trying to say here. In the end though it will always come back to being with family and friends. How can you discover close friends if you don’t want to face the bullshit that comes in between almost ALL new things?
[quote]BradTGIF wrote:
Michael570 wrote:
G.House wrote:
Lately as both men and women we have worried to much anout what others think and the fear of being alone. No this is not some religous spew. Our society has place the norm as what the masses are doing. well, i for one think thats a load of crap.
we as human being only answer to one person ourselves. we must ask ourselves id f what we do sits with us. as for being alone, we are never alone. i have found out recently that less you acutally care what people think or feel the better you feel.
i mean i have an ex-wife, i tried being pleasent for a couple of years (no luck), she thout me being nice was a sign of weakness. the only people that anyone needs is family. people will come to you when you distant yourself. now never live like a hermit, you know what they say about the quiet ones.
I hear you. What you have to realize is that to remain with your original position for being is what it’s all about if you’re trying to drop to the scene of grasping at doorknobs, ya know?
Not that I’m saying you should drop your feelings about going down that creek of dreams, which leads places only society can know about yourself, but trapping thoughts of concepts give help to moving forward.
It’s obvious that what it entails means that it’s entitled to bring back some manifestations of things you need to compensate with by yourself, or with others.
[quote]ssn0 wrote:
G.House wrote:
Lately as both men and women we have worried to much anout what others think and the fear of being alone. No this is not some religous spew. Our society has place the norm as what the masses are doing. well, i for one think thats a load of crap.
we as human being only answer to one person ourselves. we must ask ourselves id f what we do sits with us. as for being alone, we are never alone. i have found out recently that less you acutally care what people think or feel the better you feel.
i mean i have an ex-wife, i tried being pleasent for a couple of years (no luck), she thout me being nice was a sign of weakness. the only people that anyone needs is family. people will come to you when you distant yourself. now never live like a hermit, you know what they say about the quiet ones.
There are times when I still feel genuinely lonely- but it is not a constant state of mind. I attribute this to natural waves of emotions w/ in our emotional cycle. Often once I realize something painful, seeing it for what it is, I am a bit more solemn in that facet of life. The buddha lol was wise in his understanding of aloneness.
In todays society there is a great emphasis put on marriages, relationships, and sex. That it actually feels unnatural to be alone. By reversing our conditioned states we can see the underlying foundation. We are all individual being, with individual minds, thoughts, and actions.
However, we are each a key to the collective whole of existence which binds us together as one orb of energy . . To be alone in a world of togetherness is the ultimate balance. Understand what I’m trying to say here. In the end though it will always come back to being with family and friends. How can you discover close friends if you don’t want to face the bullshit that comes in between almost ALL new things?[/quote]
Usualy I would write something meaningfull about filling the void that a person feels in themselves with rich and meaningfull spiritual connections with others who confront the same issues, curcuitously leading to a better understanding of self, and a connection to some higher power.
[quote]nikolo wrote:
ssn0 wrote:
G.House wrote:
Lately as both men and women we have worried to much anout what others think and the fear of being alone. No this is not some religous spew. Our society has place the norm as what the masses are doing. well, i for one think thats a load of crap.
we as human being only answer to one person ourselves. we must ask ourselves id f what we do sits with us. as for being alone, we are never alone. i have found out recently that less you acutally care what people think or feel the better you feel.
i mean i have an ex-wife, i tried being pleasent for a couple of years (no luck), she thout me being nice was a sign of weakness. the only people that anyone needs is family. people will come to you when you distant yourself. now never live like a hermit, you know what they say about the quiet ones.
There are times when I still feel genuinely lonely- but it is not a constant state of mind. I attribute this to natural waves of emotions w/ in our emotional cycle. Often once I realize something painful, seeing it for what it is, I am a bit more solemn in that facet of life. The buddha lol was wise in his understanding of aloneness.
In todays society there is a great emphasis put on marriages, relationships, and sex. That it actually feels unnatural to be alone. By reversing our conditioned states we can see the underlying foundation. We are all individual being, with individual minds, thoughts, and actions.
However, we are each a key to the collective whole of existence which binds us together as one orb of energy . . To be alone in a world of togetherness is the ultimate balance. Understand what I’m trying to say here. In the end though it will always come back to being with family and friends. How can you discover close friends if you don’t want to face the bullshit that comes in between almost ALL new things?
Syrup.
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Syrup…what a great idea! I never thought of that. Is that the real maple syrup or the fake kind like Mrs. Butterworths and Aunt Jemima’s? Just curious…