I had to counter-balance because I set off or confirmed or whatever @marine77ās āeverything is bad!ā thing.
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It upsets me being strong enough that my top sets feel very heavy, but also weak enough that all my warm up sets ALSO feel heavy
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Yeah, hooked on phonics failed me this morning.
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This new format pisses me off.
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At least thereās no humidity?
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One day Iāll move back to Florida and wallow in it.
Here the hinges on the inside of my front door are covered in frost.
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Able-bodied people that donāt shovel.
Clean your car and the snow surrounding your carā¦ā¦ you weak lazy fuck
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Inverness is a florida town too
Thatās just salt in the wound then.
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Clients who want to hug. I have to choose between tolerating something I donāt prefer and saying an awkward āno.ā
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Iāve hugged my therapist twice. Once after she returned from maternity leave and more recently after an exceptionally difficult session.
She didnāt seem averse to it at all, but its not a regular thing by any means. And it was shoulders, not waiste. None of that wierd creepy shit Iāve seen dudes pull at meetings.
I avoid NA almost completely cuz theyāre too huggy. Way too huggy.
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Yeah, mine are upper body, too. Notā¦ pelvises pressed together. Lol
Iām better about hugging as I get older, probably because my adult kids have been practice for me, and that includes now their partners and my husbandās extended family, as theyāre huggers, too. Previously I preferred that only children under age 7 and my romantic partner enter my personal bubble. I did hug other people, but it was something I tolerated rather than enjoyed. Now? I would imagine I would hug you if we ever met, and be glad to do it. I might even initiate it.
I love hugging my husband and my kids (and stepdaughter and daughters-in-law). Very satisfying. Work people, tho. :-/
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That would be nice. 
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Yeah. I have to really care about somebody for that. I guess Iām largely indifferent to most people, and donāt attatch very quickly either.
The fact that I might initiate or need a hug was probably remarkable (not Eureka! more like ānoteworthyā) to her in some ways.
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Apologies for the late reply, Iām catching up on some threads. But I gotta know, what came next in this convo? I still canāt wrap my head around the bologna diet butā¦ how did he move on? Itās like watching a car crash, I canāt not follow along lol
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lool I feel kind of bad that just sounds like āāIām broke but want to be fitāā. Someone tell him about quark