Is this more or less embarrassing than picking up herpes meds for a cold sore. In theory, you could say that the meds you’re picking up are for your wife
I know. Men need to be strong enoigh to take a joke. And go do nice things for people they love and take pride in it instead of being embarrassed.
On the flip side, My buddies and I used to play a game in college to see what you could buy to freak out a clerk. For instance, a carrot, a cucumber, and Vaseline. Or a coat hanger, bug spray, and aspirin. Or bullets, mood-stabilizing supplements, and “sorry for your loss” cards.
I got the side eye from the lady at the hardware store a few years ago when I picked up a box of heavy duty garbage bags, a roll of duct tape, and a new axe.
I would never be with a man who cannot comfortably buy tampons or yeast meds or whatever - I need a guy whose center or sense of self or whatever is solid, and these actions barely scratch the surface of that IMO.
Once I broke 2 axe handles chopping up the same tree.
So I bought 2 replacement handles at the hardware store. It blew everyone’s mind! The clerk and 2 or 3 different old guys on the way out had to comment about using them to smash somebody up.
I’ve never received that much attention shopping. No one could imagine just needing 2 replacements at the same time.
This. I think since most dating advice is about flirting or negging, guys focus on the superficial. It’s all about image.
Figure yourself out as a man with interests, accomplishments, and most importantly- a desire to improve. Thats the main cause of divorce I’ve seen - getting too comfortable and letting things rot. You should always be pushing, doing new things, be the sunrise and the sunset.
Before you latch on to someone else and hope they do it for you.
He already has them. I’m pretty sure there are a few spots in the forest he dosen’t want anyone to dig up.