Last time I went to the beach I was stared at like a freak because of my bodyhair.(I do live in Miami, and this might have something to do with it as the ratio of metrosexuals/men is really out of wack)
Guess what, my forefathers were from Italy, and yea. That mean’s I’m gonna have some chest hair!
This girl told me “Don’t worry you can wax it next time”
This girl, along with all of her friends absolutly despise bodyhair of any kind of guys, they won’t even look at a guy if he has the slightist bit of chest hair.
Well you all are right in a way.
And I have to agree that how you look does not necessarily indicate your manliness or masculinity.
BUT, “they” largley act feminine, look corpulent and gross, have smooth bodies like young boys or women.
And the women are pretty dam sad too, skinny fat, as in relatively thin but still flabby, and mostly tend to “seem” to run their males.
Simply a very different society then 20 or 30 years ago.
Men were hairy, looked reasonably fit. Women looked mostly decent and reasonalby fit too.
But maybe the one poster was right in that they all looked at me and considered me mentally deficient because I am somewhat muscular and have body hair.
Acutally I didnt really see too many metros there, cant think of any anyhow.
[quote]zedhed wrote:
Well you all are right in a way.
And I have to agree that how you look does not necessarily indicate your manliness or masculinity.
BUT, “they” largley act feminine, look corpulent and gross, have smooth bodies like young boys or women.
And the women are pretty dam sad too, skinny fat, as in relatively thin but still flabby, and mostly tend to “seem” to run their males.
Simply a very different society then 20 or 30 years ago.
Men were hairy, looked reasonably fit. Women looked mostly decent and reasonalby fit too.
But maybe the one poster was right in that they all looked at me and considered me mentally deficient because I am somewhat muscular and have body hair.
Acutally I didnt really see too many metros there, cant think of any anyhow.
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I don’t understand the issue with body hair. That has much to do with ethnic background as well. I have never been very hairy. Even my chest hair isn’t visible from a few feet away.
I have noticed that i have become more judgemental too.
I think its shocking that so few ppl out there respect themselves, their body and their health enough to keep in moderate shape.
but then again, if they can’t even take care of themselves, its no wonder they cant be bothered to give two shits about any other big issues: environment, politics, anything!
agreed, its easy to become self-centered, by paying TOO much attention to one’s self and one’s needs, but a little care wouldnt be a bad idea.
on the chest hair topic:
i only have a problem with the metrosexuals who wax and shave. if a guy is naturally hairless, that doesnt bother me.
and if a guy is really really hairy, i find it very manly.
I don’t understand the issue with body hair. That has much to do with ethnic background as well. I have never been very hairy. Even my chest hair isn’t visible from a few feet away.
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Agreed. If your forefathers/ancestors/whatever you want to call them were, say, African or South American, there’s no reason for you to have chest hair. Even people who are “white” can have the genetics for this somewhere in their background.
On the other hand, if you’re talking about waxing, I agree that unless you’re competitively bodybuilding or swimming, it’s way out of place.