I think that to understand this one must see the I as the soul, and not the body. People who believe in life after death can do this easily. Part of the workings of this is that it must be something that the I envisions or focuses on.
You cant just look at your penis and wish for a bigger one, your soul has to also want that, most souls don’t care about how big a penis is (luckily mine did and I found thunders place). Anyways, back to the topic at hand. The soul desiring something is what spurs the subconscious into action, the subconscious then in turn spurs the conscious mind into action.
If you have a heavy dose of subconscious direction, your thoughts will continually come back to that one thing.
Take 2 dart players. One has at the soul level made the commitment and has the desire to be a great dart player. When he wakes up in the morning, the first thought that pops into his head, is the dart match he had last week where he took out a big round to defeat someone better than he currently is.
He runs down to his board and throws his darts before he gets ready for work. He enjoys it because his sbconcious is told to enjoy it and thus it allows his concious mind to be satisfied by this activity. Over the next several years the player becomes very good.
Another dart player also wants to be very good, but he has so many things going on in his life, he is spreading his soul level focus too thin, one day it’s darts, the next day it’s bowling, the next day it is his family, the next day it’s his friends, etc… He may stay on any one of these thigs for periods of time, wishing to excel at them for the moment he is there, but throughout the year, he has only spent 20% of his total soul energy on darts, therefore he has put in way less practice than the other player and isn’t much better if at all than he was a year ago.
Now what the secret is trying to let people know, though I think it goes WAY overboard in the new agey mumbo jumbo area, is that with proper focus, you can kinda give the soul some direction on what you as a complete being want. You have a negotiation between your soul and your conscious mind, then your soul gives that subconcious a little push in the direction you want to go.
If you never talk to your self, to your soul, it will just do what it was sent here to do, provide opportunities for you to learn and grow, and most of those come in the form of unpleasant experiences. Just my .02
V