Guys, I need suggestions. I met this girl about two months ago in the gym, real good shape, beautiful, smart and all. So we’ve had some talk and worked out together a few times. Even had a talk over a coffee once.She’s been away on a trip for a few weeks and now she’s back. She even invited me to her birthday party few days ago. But so far she doesn’t give me any signs that she might be interested. She told me that she had a 6 year long relationship that ended just recently. Now, I’d like to ask her out for real, you know, like a dinner or something. Should I wait for some time or ask her now? How should I ask this?
I was thinking so much about it the other day that I lost a grip during my 315 bench, boy that hurts. Help out please.
Definitely ask her out, but avoid the dinner (lots of good suggestions on other threads – do a search). Even if she’s on the rebound, you don’t have to try to take advantage of her.
Man, thanks for suggestion. I searched using different keywords but nothing came up on other threads. Could you elaborate on the options a little. Much appreciated.
Try “first date”. Worked for me…