Thank you all for the discussion so far, especially Mike.
First, let me remind you that it’s not my intention to bash soldiers in general, although some here clearly won’t believe me.
My point is that respect ought to be paid to everyone and that the soldier’s call is most often one of youth and adventure, not one of honor and commitment. If good and noble things come out of someone’s service, I am not trying to denounce that.
My mother’s lineage is quite militaristic, Hessian mercenaries, Prussian officers, Wehrmacht and also a NVA Major.
My fathers side was more pragmatic. They generally tried to avoid war, nonetheless they did their duty or fought as partisans. One individual pretty much showered himself with glory during the 1920 Battle of Warsaw.
I know how the actions of few can literally shape continents, free men of tyranny. This is not what I want to take away from anyone.
How is it that perhaps the majority of ex-soldiers tell their sons “it’s not worth it” if it’s worth it?
It’s always the same. The young men see this more as a test of their dedication. They go. They won’t miss out their chance to prove their mettle. Ten years later, they realize that mutilation and death is quite possible, that marching sucks and the superiors are cowards. But, initially you don’t want to realize that. We’re literally built for that folly.
A certain part of the male brain, dealing with rational analysis takes 25 years to mature.
Especially in today’s western society, trading a safe and comfortable life for military service seems to be completely irrational. A thousand years ago you had to fight to earn soil and privileges. Today it’s really optional.
So surely they risk life and limb out of noblesse?
No, they just do what nature build them for.
Mike, again, thank you for sharing these very personal facts.
I will now comment on your post.
I can wholeheartedly agree with your resumee.
“It’s okay to like war. It’s just not okay to join simply to kill.”
Perhaps the american soldier just happens to have “the luck” to actually shoot bad guys most of the time. But the machinery itself of which he is part of leads to more suffering then good in most cases (WW2 excluded, for example) - that I do not doubt.
I also find it refreshing that you openly admit how wonderful it felt, not only to do good things, but to be sort of a hero.
Again, I have to point out that even though I think you most probably did a great job and deserved to feel like some “freedom metal” rock star, all over the world, young guys desperately want to believe they kill for a greater good, for instance that they really serve allah’s will and they, too, get often a rock star like praise.
And yes, like every male with a healthy attitude, I have my share of hero fantasies. But I’m willing to wait for the burning barn cause I know for sure there is no “just” conflict that needs me to participate.