and any attempt to simply understand why your doctor wants to put you on antidepressants rather than treat your hypothyroidism (or getting a hysterectomy, etc.) will result in a major decrease in your Quality of Life as opposed to pushing for actual treatment or what is the root cause of your symptoms.
if those are my two options, I am sorry, but I am going to debate, push, conjole, twist his arm, etc.
You are PAYING for a service. You should demand value in return.
The Doctor works for you. You are the customer.
Would you allow a car mechanic (or hair stylist) to treat you the way your doctor treats you? so why do people allow their doctor to get away with it?
This is your one and only body.
This is your life - is it not worth fighting for? is it not worth potentially upsetting the delicate ego your doctor so that you can feel better and get the care you deserve? the care you are PAYING for?
If your doctor won’t listen to you, won’t work with you, won’t consider other options, won’t test for things you believe are important, then you need to find a new doc… yes, it will be difficult, it will take time and energy to find the right one… but in the end, it is worth it.
ask for a referral from your local compounding pharmacies. If a doc prescribes compounded drugs, then they are already a rare find and can at least think partially outside of the typical doctor box.
as a side note, crying doesn’t help. I have a spreadsheet of all of my blood tests that I use to direct the conversation with my doctor. You should always insist on having your test results in your hand PRIOR to the doc visit… why waste your limited time with the doctor simply having him read you something when you can’t research what it means or have an actual two way conversation.
I usually call in to the office, I request specific blood work and ask for a lab request, and I schedule a visit for a couple of weeks out so that I can discuss the results with the doctor. I then get my blood work and I keep on hounding the doctors office until they send me the results before my visit (the squeaky wheel gets the oil… and I am paying for the service, right?) I then post the results for others to help me dissect or research them so I have an overall grasp on what is happening, I write down my symptoms and reactions to medications/vitamins, etc. then I go in and try to actually partner with my doctor on MY health…at the end of the day, the decision is MINE on what course of action I am going to take… too many people let their doctor dictate or drive their treatment.