Many apologies for the slow reply. I am quite busy as a stay at home father with one functional arm! ; )
You need to work on your editing skills, as do I imho. As a rule, I try to use a word program to cut and paste the portion I am quoting. It seems to help a neurotic gimp like myself. Hope my advice helps.
You complained about how I provided an âaddled mess of a postâ and provided me with one to match? ; ) jaa jaa jaa
[quote]smh_23 wrote: I donât have the time to wade through this addled mess of a post, so Iâll just stick with this excerpt right here.
I am not able to speak for[/quote] Yet you ARE speaking for them! [quote]smh_23 wrote:
"all the kids [you] know who can think without jerking off [Aside: do you have hidden cameras set up in their bedrooms, or are you just taking their word for it? Cause Iâve got news for you][/quote] No, it is rather easy to tell when people are lying, especially children. There are simple cues that determine when a person lies. Children always show when they are being dishonest. Ask any grade school teacher if you donât believe me. The kids who come into school knowing how to lie and get away with it will always be the troublemakers as they grow.
Deceit is a trait that can ONLY be taught by another person. My wife once taught a young boy who lied like it was no big deal with no effort. He actually cost a friend of ours his job as librarian. She currently teaches at a charter school and no longer has any connection with the young kid. [quote]smh_23 wrote: and have a mind more powerful [than me]." What I am able to do is to support my contentionâthat the human sex drive is simply far too powerful to be overcome on a societal or global scale by people preaching abstinence, [/quote] The human sex drive can be overcome with simple will power. If the human sex drive was so strong nothing could be done, we would be the exact same as animals. We are different because people have will power. I will find you a scientific source if need be, but logic is my proof. Logic also says that the hook up culture cannot and will not survive. What does the term âculture of deathâ mean to you? Do people learn from history or do we repeat the exact same mistakes all over again? My family will learn from history. [quote]smh_23 wrote: especially when abstinence cannot be demonstrated to be an objectively desirable thing in the first placeâwith data from any time, and any place, and any people in the history of humanity. You ask if I think that the hook-up culture is going to be around much longer. [/quote]
I can look to history and find all sorts of examples. You show the college kids as proof of your stance. The funny part is that you are using the very culture that will drive itself into extinction. I knew plenty of girls who were very crazy sexually and would be the ones you describe about as they â??awkwardly shame-walking homeâ?? and I can tell you after a decade of life, I know many who are very unsatisfied with their lives.
The single event that changed them most was becoming pregnant. One girl I know was a six foot knockout and after she became pregnant, her world changed, obviously. The number of people and their behavior will never change Truth. [quote]smh_23 wrote: Yes, yes I do. Because it is simply a modern manifestation of an inexorable and timeless human truth, a human truth that youâll see exactly everywhere you look. To take one of literally billions of examples, the same thing that drives college kids into awkwardly waking up next to strangers and then awkwardly shame-walking home was driving am not surprised in the least.[/quote] Does it surprise you to know people have a hard time killing other people because logic shows the opposite. [quote]smh_23 wrote: Union soldiers to go out aâlookinâ for some strange centuries ago. [/quote]
Your point is still illogical. If you take any group of people and stress them, you can never use them as an excuse to prove something irrelevant. [quote]smh_23 wrote: How do I know this? Because the Union army recorded more than 100,000 cases of gonorrhea in just a two-year period during the Civil War. The human tendency to promiscuity hasnât changed since then, and it isnât changing in the future, especially now that protective contraceptives, if used properly, have greatly reduced[/quote]If the diseases were eliminated we would NOT need protection. quote]smh_23 wrote:âin fact essentially eliminatedâthe risks and costs associated with the modern sex life.[/quote]
You agree with me, yet having sex with any girl you know is safe. Is this because people are honest about their past and they would never lie about having a sexually transmitted disease? I sure would not take everyone at their word because I know human nature. [quote]smh_23 wrote: Regarding âthose type of diseases come from people who lack the self control to be mature.â Well, I agree, in a way. Unprotected sex with people whom youâre not familiar with is a pretty dumb thing to do in this world. But I suspect that you mean something moreâsomething along the lines of, âpeople who abstain are mature and people who donât are not.â [/quote]
Good to know that you watch movies for your moral views. [quote]smh_23 wrote: Well, to quote the Dude: Thatâs like, your opinion man. Your religion wants you to wait until marriage, mine doesnât. my worldview, in fact, considers consensual sex to be among the healthiest and most important aspects of life as an adult human, right up there with exercise, reading, and watching football. [And nothing makes a responsible man mature like learning his way around a womanâs body, whether heâs married or not.][/quote]
You are thinking I will save the world? Nope. I will save one baby at a time though. [quote]smh_23 wrote: Take that little conundrum, take the fact that the set of moral axioms by which you live your life mean exactly nothing to me and to the billions of other people who live their lives by a completely different set of moral axioms, multiply it by 7 billion and youâve got a problem that youâre not, and I mean not ever, going to solve.[/quote]
You just need to know that abortion kills a child, every single time. [quote]smh_23 wrote: You will never, in other words, convince me and/or people like me that abstinence is a good thing.[/quote]
Sex does NOT lead to pregnancy? Please learn the science of life before you make wrong statements like this. Every person in the world was created through sex. [quote]smh_23 wrote: But, luckily for all of us, abortion isnât about sex, itâs about pregnancy. And sex doesnât need to lead to pregnancy. Because you know what you can do? You can win on abortion where you failed on abstinence.[/quote] You are ok with killing children? I hope you are just angry. [quote]smh_23 wrote: You can, in the context of abortion, appeal to certain moral axioms that are, unlike the âwait 'till marriageâ ones, universal or very nearly universal. You can make inroads with the Christian, the Jew, the agnostic, and even the atheistâinroads that cannot be made vis-a-vis abstinence.[/quote]
I have never said anything you claim in the last few paragraphs. With two children at home, I have things to do. [quote]smh_23 wrote: Convince Christians not to wear condoms, thatâs fine as long as they arenât going to get abortions. But when itâs non-Christians youâre talking about, who gives a damn if they wear them? Whereas when a non-Christian gets an abortion, we all give a damn. People who wear condoms donât generally get abortions. And shouldnât the enemy of your enemy be your friend?[/quote]