[quote]MikeTheBear wrote:
[quote]Sloth wrote:
[quote]MikeTheBear wrote:
[quote]Brother Chris wrote:
[quote]Eli B wrote:
right decision. I for one believe in civil rights.[/quote]
I’m sure you believe in the destruction of community as well?[/quote]
I have yet to understand how gay marriage destroys anything. I could argue that it has the opposite affect. At a time when divorce rates are high, having a marginalized group fight hard for the right to be married suggests that marriage just might be a valuable thing. I, for one, cannot even contemplate how gay marriage would devalue my own marriage for the simple reason that I define the importance of my marriage by my own standards, not anyone else’s.[/quote]
The shallow individualistic, “I’m an island, your an island, individuals of the next generation will be islands,” line of thinking needs to die the true death. Man hasn’t been, isn’t, and never will be an island. This kind of thought has pretty much rolled out every cultural degradation responible for the already sad state of marriage. The ability to even debate this issue, as if wasn’t anything but a farce, is not an indication of marriage’s attractiveness and vitality. It’s a friggen symptom of how deep of a hole we’ve already dug for ourselves. And you folks just insist you’re going to keep on digging. [/quote]
This is just rhetoric and nothing else. Explain with facts and evidence how gay marriage will destroy heterosexual marriage and I will oppose it. Otherwise, you’re just blowing hot air in an attempt to justify the fact that you find homosexuality disgusting. Hey, I understand. I’m not into the gay thing either - never have, never will be - and I don’t understand how someone could be attracted to someone of the same sex. And because I don’t understand why someone would be gay is precisely why I am completely not threatened by the idea of gays getting married. I simply don’t care - it doesn’t affect me one bit.
Perhaps you feel that the option of gay marriage might cause someone to rethink their heterosexuality and “switch sides,” become gay, and opt for that life as opposed to entering into a heterosexual marriage. You may see this as a negative - I say, GOOD! If someone can be so easily persuaded to change their sexual orientation then I would seriously question whether they have any business to be getting married and raising kids to begin with. You see, I don’t live in a happy world. To be blunt, there are people out there who have no business having children. If they choose another option, so much the better. [/quote]
How do you even ask me this? You yourself depend on gay marriage cheapening state recognition of the institution. You want government out of the business of incentivizing marriage, and you’ve admitted as much. Now you’re going to pretend you want a broadening of of government action for the sake of ‘gay marriage’ itself? How about for the polyamorous? How about for the non-sexually involved? Oh yes, it’s none of our business what the never-to-be-consummated bride, groom, groom, and groom do in the sack. Even if it’s nothing.
What, you ask me, will be the consequences? How about turning the institution into a damn joke? How about defining it so broadly it pretty much has no definition, therefore, no prestige? No place on a pedestal in society to be aspired to? Hey, let’s open up government drive thru windows, where even the single man can have his status changed to partnerless “married,” therefore claiming his ‘right.’ What the hell is government doing discriminating between lifestyles, after all!
We have enough problems already with our culture and the institution of marriage. All created by the “it’s none of my business” brigade. Sorry if I want get off the van. But hey, keep preaching the abolishment of the nanny state while ignoring the moral decay, the decay of traditional social institutions, etc. You’re spinning your wheels because you haven’t made the connection. True socialists must love you guys.
So hey, let’s just define marriage as a right to a stamped, sealed, and approved title. Or, maybe the purpose of state recognized marriage is simply to hand out ‘marriage benefits’ for the sake of handing out ‘benefits’ to whoever/whatever claims their rights. Forget that though, let’s cut to the chase. We could remove the word single from any all documentation. US citizens would all have the right to the same status, married. There, everyone’s married and making use of whatever applies to them.
Or, are you a bigot who’d deny all other forms of relationship and association a pretty little ‘marriage’ license? Nah, you’re enlightned. So, if Tom, Jim, Charlotte, and Peggy Sue and about 5 others want their claim to the marriage right, how’s it harm your marriage, right? Don’t dare say that was absurd, because you can’t object to any arrangement between consenting adults. Unless their association exists for the purpose breaking into your home, I suppose.