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[quote]GorillaMon wrote:
[quote]Cortes wrote:
[quote]GorillaMon wrote:
[quote]Cortes wrote:
[quote]GorillaMon wrote:
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[quote]GorillaMon wrote:
Because I’d be anticipating fatherdom.
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But you would let your wife kill your child? Doesn’t sound like you are anticipating it that much. Or am I missing something here?[/quote]
Yes, you are missing something. You seem to be assuming that on some level I agree with your concept of personhood, when in reality, I don’t.
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I know we ostensibly disagree on that point. Believe me, I know exactly where I’m going with this.
Since you appear either to not get where I’m leading or to not want to cooperate, I’ll just come to the point: Why would you be disappointed at the removal of a clump of cells? Or, if you don’t like the description, call it what you will, but you have yet to define for me just exactly what you think that thing in her womb is, exactly, if not a “person.”
If it is not a person, then I don’t see why you should feel, “gutted,” from my understanding a rather strong expression of the word “disappointed.”
Secondly, if it is indeed not a person as you say, then when does it transform from whatever it is into a full fledged person?
I’m not asking for anything but reasonable answers to natural questions, but you don’t appear to want to cooperate with me by answering the questions I am asking forthrightly. I’m asking you for an honest answer, or at the very least to explain yourself. [/quote]
‘Gutted’ is an English colloquialism. It’s used in many different contexts. It’s doesn’t neccessarily mean: Emotionally devastated/deeply traumatized etc.
Slightly bad choice of wording on my part.
Like I said before, I see this as a matter of degrees.
Also, condider the possibility of a pregnant mother accidently killing her unborn child (assuming she didn’t even know she was pregnant), would you have the same moral objection to this as any other termination?
Again, practicality. [/quote]
I can’t have a moral objection to an accident. There was no will involved.
So which is it then, you would be kinda like, “Oh well, that sucks but cool babe, it’s your call. Feel like Chinese tonight?” More upset than this? Less?
Keep in mind that the object she is tearing limb from limb will almost certainly become your actual, real child should she choose not go go through with it.
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If I really had my mind set on fathering her child it would be difficult. We may even separate.
If I didn’t have my mind set on fathering her child it would be more a relief/I’d feel it was for the best/the right thing to do.
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ZEB nailed it, but to reiterate: So the only substantial difference in either scenario is just you. What’s more, you really tip your hand when you reveal that your decision making process does not even involve your wife, whose “choice” it supposedly is. For instance, you could have said, “If I really had my mind set on fathering her child it would be difficult. We may even separate. But I would do my best to understand the decision from her point of view as, ultimately, it really is her choice.”
But you didn’t say that.
And so we see this: Whether a budding life, with all the potential to be born, and grow, and live, and thrive, to become her own person, author of her own story and master of her fate, will be allowed to live indeed, or be snuffed out, torn apart before she even has the chance to draw her first breath, is ultimately decided by one thing; Pure, postmodern, narcissistic selfishness.
I appreciate your honesty.[/quote]
You are reading WAAAAAAAAAAY too much into what I’m saying here dude.
Obviously my thought proccesses in such a scenario wouldn’t just simply be one of relief.