[quote]Brother Chris wrote:
[quote]ZuluSierraPapa wrote:
[quote]optheta wrote:
I was bored and got to thinking why is it the common thinking nowadays is to worry about yourself and nobody elses problem? Isn’t that what makes us Human? Caring for one another, helping each other out and what not? Yet I constantly hear from people “Worry about yourself” (or some variation), Am i right or am I wrong? Anybody care to elaborate?[/quote]
As a Christian, I’m called to forget about myself and invest all of my energy into the well-being of others, trusting that God will provide for me. If I show the “worry about yourself” attitude, I consider it my failure.[/quote]
Who have you been listening to?[/quote]
JAH.
[quote]kaisermetal wrote:
I’ve tried help people achieving their objectives, be it getting stronger/bigger on the gym, obtaining financial freedom and the bottom line for everything is: THEY DON’T FUCKING CARE!
Human have something called EGO and most of them don’t want any help even if they are heading towards their doom, the only ones who listened to what i said were the ones that CAME to me and asked: “how can i improve in this particular area?”
I mean, you don’t need to be an asshole to everyone, but every damn time in life that i’ve tried to help someone who didn’t ask for any help i just end up getting frustrated and mad with the person.
But that doesn’t mean you need to give up, giving the example is the best help you can offer someone, be a role model, someone they aspire to be like someday, and when they respect you they will ask for your advices.[/quote]
Truth. Have to be mindful when giving unsolicited help, but it’s often worthwhile to respond to a request.