For the guys, do you any of you know, is there a way to “teach” yourself how to keep it up after nutting the first time? I’ve done it by pure chance a couple of times, but other than that, I almost always go limp a minute or two after ejaculating.
Here is the trick - orgasm without ejaculation. What? Thats right - its a little known fact that male orgasm and ejaculation are actually two seperate things which just happen almost simultaneously. There are a few way of seperating orgasm from ejaculation - but they take practice. Eventually you could have sex - orgasm a few times and never ejaculate. If you are looking for a book on the subject search for “the multi orgasmic man” the best book on the subject that I have read. It also has sections devoted to pleasuring your partner and gay sex if thats your thing. Its a great resource that every guy should get. Some of the things need a dedicated partner but a lot of it you can “practice” yourself… if you know what I mean 
Yes in fact their is. There are many books on the subject. There are actual excercises that men can perform that will keep that in check. It is like cagles for men. Basically you learn to strengthen and control the muscle that restricts blood flow to the dick. That way you have total control over your hardon and ejaculation. Good luck. Start at sexuality.org. Lots of good information there.
I saw this book in Chapters but I felt like a dingus getting it. So I didn’t. Hmmmmmm what is 1 min of embrassment for a life time of “fun”. So it actually works? 
Buy it online if you dont want to do it in the store - or just go buy it and ask the girl at the counter what she is doing later ;) No but seriously its very informative. As far as whether it works or not - Im only 20 - an age when a lot of guys have sex for 5 or 10 minutes. This book has increased my sexual performace greatly - I can thrust until the girl is satisfied - and sometimes that take a while (of course there are other things to help satify a girl - but those are also covered in the book - its an awesome resource). One thing I have not been able to do is have an orgasm without ejaculation - in order to get to this level you need to have a girl that you can practice with very often - and Im not currently in a relationship so that makes it kind of tough. But I assume that once I am and I get some practice in - Ill be having multiple orgasms on a regular basis.
you could wax it so many times in one day that a puff of dust and cobwebs comes out… cunning linguist, did you ever frequent NLP chatrooms or boards?
See that’s the thing I want the 2 or more for the price of one. nudge nudge Why don’t you practice by yourself. Heheheh.