I’m not sure I understand this. What does being aggressive on the numbers game mean?
I’m no expert, but after spending most of the last 15 years off of the market it still seems like it is simplest to ask girls out on dates and see what happens from there.
Am I missing some vital information for modern dating by dumping everything I head Molyneaux say right into the mental trashbin?
men initiate contact with women that aren’t totally attracted to now more than I have ever seen before in my life. why? because men have to be super aggressive on the numbers game these days.
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Honest question, how do you know this is happening?
Less intelligent guy doesn’t get the better job - gets a lesser one;
Less athletic guy doesn’t win the championship - changes sports or rides the bench;
Less wealthy guy can’t afford the mansion - buys 3/2 in suburbs;
Less appealing guy can’t get Barbie - finds less appealing girl that can’t score Ken.
People have been figuring this out on their own - always.
@twojarslave
You seem to be a well-adjusted intelligent man who is adept in attracting and communicating with women. Maybe you’re good looking and/or highly paid and had a great childhood.
So no, perhaps you don’t need to listen to anyone regarding the matter. And that’s good!
I would like to see this answered, as well as the question of the equal-but-opposite disenfranchised young woman, who
“are eschewing the idea of ‘dating’ altogether. Many hetero cis women I know have even given up sex. They’re choosing instead the cat n’ vibrator model, which used to be the saddest of tropes. But it exists for a reason: it is more reliable than a man. Cats are assholes, but at least they’re consistent. They don’t, for example, make New Year’s Eve plans with you and then act like you’re the thirstiest bitch alive when you text them about it later.” (Sarah Ratchford, 2017, “Why I’m Giving Up Dating Men and Just Staying Home”)
was the point of his video to help people get a date or was he just describing what is going on with this ‘incel’ movement and why he thinks it is happening?
not sure why everything on this topic has to be self-help oriented.