Messed Up with a Girl. Help Needed

I was just asking because you had admittedly incorrect/skewed interpretations of other politically hot american current events earlier in the thread. The term Sanctuary City refers to a wide range of policies and cities and I was curious what your interpretation was. No need for name calling.

Do you agree with giving committed gay couples the same rights as straight couples, and leaving marriage for ‘tge church’ to decide?

I’m from NYC too. Saw gay couples all the time. Just never saw them kissing in person til college somehow. I only brought up my reaction because I think people use religion, tradition, and a million other excuses to justify denying gays rights when it usually just comes down to that initial feeling of disgust from seeing something different.

I hadn’t seen your post before responding to Ottawa, I was referencing what he had said was the reaction of people. I guess you can’t control what your initial reaction is, but you can control how you proceed afterwards. I just don’t see why someone’s sexual preference bothers others so much. Aside from feeling grossed out, it has no affect on you whatsoever. If no one is being harmed or manipulated, just let them be. I’m siding with you on this one Flip

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The only freedom your average leftist cares about is the freedom to be as degenerate and irresponsible as pleases their hedonistic lifestyle. So-called conservatives are often no better. The freedom you and many leftists advocate is little more than the freedom to do what you want, when you want. It snubs responsibility. We cannot use simpleminded slogans, such as, “we are a free people” or “diversity is our strength” to reach meaningful conclusions about how we ought to live. Not to mention the fact that atrocities are often carried out under such simpleminded slogans.

Now that I’ve pissed off the homophilic crowd, let’s piss off some Christians.

I’m not Christian. I’m anti-Christian. The only firmly held beliefs I have about Christianity are all negative. I don’t think of Christianity as good, moral, or, just, and I don’t think of America as such either.

If anything, a poor reading coupled with your own biases led you to the conclusion that someone who doesn’t uncritically accept gay marriage must be a Christian. The way I see it, the left expects nothing more than uncritical acceptance of its agenda. If you don’t, you are a racist, bigot, homophobe, etc.

I was very clear that marriage being founded on love is not entirely new and I never excluded Christians from it. I think the majority of Christians are full of shit.

Many churches have cowtowed to the gay issue.They fly the rainbow flag and perform gay marriages. This only validates my belief that Christianity doesn’t stand for anything. At the end of the day it’s only trying to retain membership.

Moral values certainly didn’t originate with Christianity. If anything, it originated 2000 years of corrupting European peoples and whoever else it came into contact with.

So much insanity and bloodshed, and I’ll add, the senseless persecution and murder of people who didn’t conform to its strict tenets or those who had different beliefs and gays.

That’s right, I don’t support the persecution of gays and I doubt many people do.

Ottawa already made great points. I would caution you against using the veneer of enlightenment ideals and American patriotism, i.e., muh freedom, in order to advance arguments that don’t have to anything do with “freedom” in that sense. Anyhow, that’s how it comes off when your answer is simply “freedom.”

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You are borderline incoherent, not just here, in general. In order to humor you, no, I don’t support gay marriage under any condition. Gays already have as many “rights,” if not more, than everyone else. I don’t see why being a special snowflake, liks gays or transgenders, means you should get more rights and special protection.

While I don’t agree with any mainstream political ideas, contemporary liberalism is particularly out of touch with reality. I cannot get down with its anti-reality, anti-truth perspective. Most of all, I cannot stand the hypocrisy of the left.

As I already stated, I don’t give a damn about the church . The churches will do as they please to remain relevant, even if that means sanctioning gay marriage, abortion, or giving an okay on the migrant invasion of Europe and North America.

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As a student of politics (undergrad and graduate), I’d be VERY interested in hearing the rights that these individuals have that others don’t. Could you elaborate?

The right to be fabulous?

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I don’t think you understand how your arguments can be used to advocate things very different than what you would like.

@chris_ottawa already made it clear how what you’re saying can be used to justify, e.g., pedophilia or zoophilia. Oh, you’re disguised? Too bad, you’re just a bigot who’s not used to seeing something different. That, in essence, is your argument. Some people just want to fuck children or dogs. Are you going to deny them the right to do so?

The problem, something I tried to express in a much earlier post, is the consequences for society. There are societal consequences for normalizing anything, in this case, homosexuality.

You question why so many people have a problem with it. I question why, over such a short period of time, we did an aboutface a and wholesale accept homosexuality as a norm, and we’re not supposed to even question it.

Anything that remains beyond question can be dangerous. Certainly, that’s how liberals would like to keep it because they don’t want debate, they want to shut down debate. But I give everyone credit for keeping it cordial and not calling me a “bigot” or use another popular ad hominem.

I don’t have an interest in the sex lives of others. My point is that I don’t believe gay marriage should be uncritically and wholesale accepted by society. I think there are greater consequences for society and for family when homosexuality is normalized.

What gay people do in privacy is their business, but I don’t think homosexuality or unfettered freedom to do whatever you want deserves moral sanction.

Believe it or not, when I was younger, I was the prototypical liberal. Aging has allowed me to realize that everything isn’t so black and white or ideal as liberals make it out to be. At this point, I don’t support any part of the liberal political program. The political ideology of liberalism is one of the most corrosive influences in society.

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Why the personal insult over a nuetral, easy to answer clarifying question?

The philosopher Ludwig Wittgenstein remarked on the tendency of debates towards arguing over semantics. “Rights,” “freedoms,” “tradition,” “liberalism,” “moral.” All these terms and many more, get cloudy during a debate. We encounter this in Plato’s dialogues over andover again, i.e. “the good,” “the just,” “love,” “righteousness.”

For people who say, e.g., “We need to get out and vote for gay rights,” I honestly don’t know what they’re talking about. Gay marriage is legal in the US. What more rights are expected or needed?

To give you a partial answer to your question, I think that gays are given special protection that heterosexual / white / males do not receive. I think hate crimes rarely happen but hate crimes are, for some reason, considered more heinous than crimes against, e.g. heterosexual / white / male.

I don’t think criminal charges should be harsher if you attacked someone who isn’t a white / heterosexual / male. I think if something was premeditated, the charges are harsh enough if it can be demonstrated someone premediatedly attacked someone.

To me, hate crime laws serve a legislative function of enforcing the cultural Marxist agenda, i.e. oppressors vs. oppressived. Liberals tend to support these laws. So-called rightwingers are often against them.

Should a man happens to use a gay slur against a gay man when he is in the process of whooping ass be charged with a hate crime if this was a spontaneous, unpremeditated event? I don’t think so. Yes, the attacker should be prosecuted to fullest extent of the law. But I don’t think it’s necessary or fair to make this a more serious crime because someone happens to use a gay slur or racial slur.

Of course this is where your NPC liberal steps in and lectures me about “a history of oppression” or something like that. Ironic, given the left doesn’t care for history or truth at the end of the day.

I digress.

Yes, I think some persecution of gays and ethnic minorities still occurs in the US. At this point, the paradigm has been so flipped in favor of the “oppressed” that you have white / heterosexual / males apologizing and prostrating themselves for their “history of oppression.”

Whites apologizing for being white. Men apologizing for for actions they never took part in. The whole thing is very pathetic and unmanly, and I view this paradigm shift as more problematic than the world before when gays had to remain in the closet.

My views aren’t going to win me many followers, and that’s okay. I am alive in the wrong age. I don’t like the trajectory of the modern world and I occasionally challenge it as an act of leisure, but I don’t expect to change anything. Thank you for entertaining me!

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You have a low threshold for what you consider an insult. Saying you are “borderline incoherent” is an insult? I didn’t mean it as an insult. It’s an observation. I answered your question in my reply to you and in my other replies.

Gotchya. So you, as you said in a previous post, you appreciate people keeping the discussion civil and not calling you names, but you feel comfortable calling other folks names.

Here is a question- what in your life made you change from having a left leaning outlook to having what seems to be an extreme right leaning outlook? Do you have thoughts on any “watershed moments”?

In contrast though, others, like Hans-Georg Gadamer, might counter that language is simply understanding and agreement between two people, and so far as we make the contract to use the same terms to mean the same things, the language can perpetuate.

In this instance, I don’t view protections as rights. As an example, children are afforded MANY more protections under the government than adults are, yet many would argue that children actually have far fewer rights than adults.

My understanding is that they are cities that have refused to cooperate with ICE in detaining and turning over illegal immigrants. Like if the police there arrest someone who ICE wants in some places they won’t notify ICE or send the person to them.

Yup that is the popular definition. It’s not quite that simple though because they are not (supposed to be) actively thwarting ICE. Instead their policy is to not check immigration status of folks arrested
 Because of the innocent till proven guilty thing, and because it takes additional time and money to search a database and detain someone for a week or more when they’d normally be let go that night.

I’m not a fan of the policy but i also understand the financial and logistical burden of checking every arrestee, and then holding folks for a while until ICE can show up and deport them. Nothing about the feds is fast or cheap.

Maybe you’re just desensitized. For a long time I lived in downtown Ottawa, gays were a regular sight around there. Where I live now they are few and far in between, and don’t go around flaunting their nastiness so I don’t see it anymore. I don’t think anyone has ever mistaken me for a homosexual, that is the least of my concerns. It’s just offensive to see that, like if you saw a guy picking his nose and eating his snot you would be disgusted. That’s just gross and unhygienic, add some immorality into the mix and its even worse.

This is essentially the same thing, they either refuse to enforce immigration laws or simply neglect to do so with the same end result.

It’s not like I hate people who want to illegally enter another country, it just doesn’t make sense that the government has laws on the books and doesn’t enforce them. Instead they give welfare, refugee benefits (way more that welfare, gov’t pension, etc. in many places), medical care (maybe not in the US though) and those who are willing and able to get jobs end up driving down the cost of labour for the rest of us.

It’s actually the feds job to enforce immigration laws, hence ICE’s existence. So its more like the sanctuary City isn’t doing ICE a solid haha. That is my abbreviated general understanding of it.

The constituents want the sanctuary City. It saves the city money. The social impact is a wash. And the feds can’t really do anything about it. Seems like a nice case of states rights, and an underperforming federal agency getting pissed.

As has been said many times before. The jobs the illegals are taking are shit work for shit pay. Not taking any decent work nor depressing wages at decent paying jobs.

Do you think being gay is a choice or a learned behavior that can be unlearned?

Just seems odd for a person in an interracial marriage (you said that right?) to be saying nearly verbatim the same things about gay couples the Jim crow south said about interracial couples.