I just find him a pathetic figure, and I don’t mean that in a mean or demeaning way. His existence just makes me shake my head.
I don’t think it’s any coincidence that he comes a family of antisocial people. He just ended up as the logical extreme. What in the hell is wrong with someone that doesn’t call the police when their son just up and disappears? It’s truly sad that an attitude like that was engendered in generations of people to the extent that their legacy decides to completely remove himself from all contact with other humans.
Being an introvert is one thing, and I would call myself one. But positive social interaction is so beneficial to the mind and body that there is no way that this guy couldn’t also benefit from it. There’s a reason he stayed so close to people just on the fringes and didn’t just retreat into true solitude. There’s also a reason he opened up to the author of the article. Like all of us he craves social interaction, but his biggest problem is not having his capacity for it built up over time because of his upbringing. He’s what Malcolm gladwell would call an outlier: the perfect combination of genetics, environment and random luck that allowed him to do what he did.