Looking for Advice - False Rape Accusation

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[quote]dmharper wrote:
In the fall of 1983 I met a girl, both of us at the same university.

In the spring of 1984 the girl and I became exclusive.

In the fall of 1984 I graduated, moved away, and continued the relationship long distance.

In the summer of 1985, as part of her degree, girl goes on a university sponsored field trip. Girl gets separated from her class mates on a free day. Walking alone through a national park girl is confronted by an assailant. Girl is “raped and sodomized at gun point”, the quote coming from girl’s horrified professor who had lead this particular field trip for a decade and nothing like this had ever happened. Girl said “no”, girl vomited during assault, definitely rape, no question about it. Girl at hospital, rape kit administered, and a police report taken. Girl thinks I won’t want her any more, thinking she’s “damaged goods”.

Summer 1985 I propose marriage over the phone from 2,000 miles away. Girl accepts proposal.

Summer 1985 girl returns home. Her family none the wiser. Girl and I continue the relationship.

Winter 1986, girl and I get married.

Summer 1986, girl’s father receives a package from the police department, in whose jurisdiction the assaulted occurred; statute of limitations on the case having lapsed, no perpetrator found, evidence being returned to the victim. Clothing worn during, and evidence of, the assault.

2014 girl can’t serve on a jury because she was the victim of a violent crime. Her civil rights having been taken away from her years after the fact of the actual incident.

2014 OP clouds serious issue with trolling post. An issue that requires nuance, understanding, empathy, and compassion; a topic that can barely be discussed intelligently in the first place now further clouded by OP’s obfuscation and apparent need for attention. A disservice to all women; mothers, sisters, daughters, wives, aunts, nieces, girl friends, girlfriends, and female acquaintances.[/quote]

In the fall of 2014 I read an impressive post. I hope you and your girl have been and will continue to be very happy together.

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[quote]LoRez wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
OPs story is not that far fetched, considering some women will claim to have been sexually assaulted to avoid paying for a cab fare. [/quote]
The first half isn’t that farfetched. Spending 4 days in county because of it is.[/quote]

The part where the alleged victim spends the entire night fast asleep on top of her
attacker, bedroom door unlocked, no signs of restraint and her friend bursting in on the scene with perfect timing was pretty bogus.

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[quote]dmharper wrote:
In the fall of 1983 I met a girl, both of us at the same university.

In the spring of 1984 the girl and I became exclusive.

In the fall of 1984 I graduated, moved away, and continued the relationship long distance.

In the summer of 1985, as part of her degree, girl goes on a university sponsored field trip. Girl gets separated from her class mates on a free day. Walking alone through a national park girl is confronted by an assailant. Girl is “raped and sodomized at gun point”, the quote coming from girl’s horrified professor who had lead this particular field trip for a decade and nothing like this had ever happened. Girl said “no”, girl vomited during assault, definitely rape, no question about it. Girl at hospital, rape kit administered, and a police report taken. Girl thinks I won’t want her any more, thinking she’s “damaged goods”.

Summer 1985 I propose marriage over the phone from 2,000 miles away. Girl accepts proposal.

Summer 1985 girl returns home. Her family none the wiser. Girl and I continue the relationship.

Winter 1986, girl and I get married.

Summer 1986, girl’s father receives a package from the police department, in whose jurisdiction the assaulted occurred; statute of limitations on the case having lapsed, no perpetrator found, evidence being returned to the victim. Clothing worn during, and evidence of, the assault.

2014 girl can’t serve on a jury because she was the victim of a violent crime. Her civil rights having been taken away from her years after the fact of the actual incident.

2014 OP clouds serious issue with trolling post. An issue that requires nuance, understanding, empathy, and compassion; a topic that can barely be discussed intelligently in the first place now further clouded by OP’s obfuscation and apparent need for attention. A disservice to all women; mothers, sisters, daughters, wives, aunts, nieces, girl friends, girlfriends, and female acquaintances.[/quote]

I don’t disagree with anything you wrote. I would like to go a little zen for a second and add that false false rape accusations don’t only make light of rape but also make light of real false rape accusations.

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[quote]csulli wrote:
I don’t get why people are still responding as though it were real lol.[/quote]

I think a lot of people never read responses… just the first post (and even then, they skim), maybe one or two other posts of people they generally agree with or find funny, and then spout off their expertise.

I like when people respond, “I didn’t read any of that, but…”

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[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
weak trolling, you posted on TN on November 1st and 3rd.

I cannot for the life of me understand why anyone would make up a story like this and post it to an internet forum. It spreads fear and makes the world an uglier place generally. Guys who read it will forget where it came from and just recall sketchy details: “dude, I knew this one guy, who was a VIRGIN dude, and he got charged just because some drunk chick fell asleep on top of him!”

If you are in trouble or get in trouble, OP, I would say you deserve it.
[/quote]

False, got accused of rape twice in college. Some women will say anything to save face or realize their twisted dramatic fantasies for attention. They love that shit and don’t care who suffers because of it.

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[quote]SuperVillian wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
weak trolling, you posted on TN on November 1st and 3rd.

I cannot for the life of me understand why anyone would make up a story like this and post it to an internet forum. It spreads fear and makes the world an uglier place generally. Guys who read it will forget where it came from and just recall sketchy details: “dude, I knew this one guy, who was a VIRGIN dude, and he got charged just because some drunk chick fell asleep on top of him!”

If you are in trouble or get in trouble, OP, I would say you deserve it.
[/quote]

False, got accused of rape twice in college. Some women will say anything to save face or realize their twisted dramatic fantasies for attention. They love that shit and don’t care who suffers because of it.
[/quote]

I’m not defending that behavior. I’m weighing in as being against this particular malicious lie. I’m against false accusations of all sorts.

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[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]SuperVillian wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
weak trolling, you posted on TN on November 1st and 3rd.

I cannot for the life of me understand why anyone would make up a story like this and post it to an internet forum. It spreads fear and makes the world an uglier place generally. Guys who read it will forget where it came from and just recall sketchy details: “dude, I knew this one guy, who was a VIRGIN dude, and he got charged just because some drunk chick fell asleep on top of him!”

If you are in trouble or get in trouble, OP, I would say you deserve it.
[/quote]

False, got accused of rape twice in college. Some women will say anything to save face or realize their twisted dramatic fantasies for attention. They love that shit and don’t care who suffers because of it.
[/quote]

I’m not defending that behavior. I’m weighing in as being against this particular malicious lie. I’m against false accusations of all sorts.
[/quote]

I like you, EmilyQ. Not in a let’s-hold-hands-and-walk-around-the-park-together kind of way, but in a I-enjoy-your-posts kind of way.

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[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:

[quote]tsantos wrote:

[quote]kenny-mccormick wrote:
You really are a fucking loser[/quote]

LOL I don’t think this sub forum is for you…[/quote]

That’s why you shouldn’t think[/quote]
lmfao

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[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
You should never ever ever talk to police without a attorney present. Always refuse to talk without attorney. Alsways ask if your being charged if the answer is no simply say book me or let me go. Worse they can do is put you on 24hr hold. When they say can & will use it against you they mean it. Hire a lawyer now and stop talking to cops. You could very easily get railroaded into some bullshit.

Dont help these guys make a case against you get your checkbook ready, or get ready for many many days lifting weights and playing cards with assholes in a basement[/quote]
Man, no offense, but I hope I’m never at a point where you’re giving me advice.

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[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]spar4tee wrote:

[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
You should never ever ever talk to police without a attorney present. Always refuse to talk without attorney. Alsways ask if your being charged if the answer is no simply say book me or let me go. Worse they can do is put you on 24hr hold. When they say can & will use it against you they mean it. Hire a lawyer now and stop talking to cops. You could very easily get railroaded into some bullshit.

Dont help these guys make a case against you get your checkbook ready, or get ready for many many days lifting weights and playing cards with assholes in a basement[/quote]
Man, no offense, but I hope I’m never at a point where you’re giving me advice.[/quote]

Sad to say but this Hebrew comic book character is correct about the above.[/quote]

Yes. The wolf will become the prey to the sheep dogs if they are not careful what they say.

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[quote]clinton131 wrote:

[quote]pushharder wrote:

[quote]spar4tee wrote:

[quote]thehebrewhero wrote:
You should never ever ever talk to police without a attorney present. Always refuse to talk without attorney. Alsways ask if your being charged if the answer is no simply say book me or let me go. Worse they can do is put you on 24hr hold. When they say can & will use it against you they mean it. Hire a lawyer now and stop talking to cops. You could very easily get railroaded into some bullshit.

Dont help these guys make a case against you get your checkbook ready, or get ready for many many days lifting weights and playing cards with assholes in a basement[/quote]
Man, no offense, but I hope I’m never at a point where you’re giving me advice.[/quote]

Sad to say but this Hebrew comic book character is correct about the above.[/quote]

Yes. The wolf will become the prey to the sheep dogs if they are not careful what they say.
[/quote]

Someone linked this on these forums years ago and I still remember it. Good watch.

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I don’t hate women…I live in fear of them… not because of what they can do to me physically or emotionally, but legally.

I just can’t believe that they are permitted to do by society. im sure that if a lot of you guys did some research, your minds would be absolutely blown as well. get red-pilled. .you’ll be doing yourselves a favor.

I don’t know how society has degraded itself so far to reach this point… where cab drivers are forced to install cameras in their vehicles because of how commonly they are accused of rape… where a 30 year old woman can rape a 14 year old boy, become pregnant, and sue him for child support and win (doing no jail time), even though he is too young to even legally hold a job imagine if the roles were reversed.

women can and do easily ruin the lives of great men, simply because they want attention. great men have lost EVERYTHING, including their children, and decades of their lives, because a woman felt like she had been wrong. I feel like this is something that gets swept under the rug to the point of becoming ignored completely.

now again, I don’t hate women, im just afraid of the power they wield… as anyone who knows anything would be.

this story (as just about every other troll story), was for lulz. was not expecting to be caught in the first post… lol

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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]nighthawkz wrote:
As much as I usually like to point out how often women get the short end of the stick in rape trials -[/quote]

please go back to tumblr [/quote]

Never been there. But I might go there if you promise to stay in your fapcave from now on.

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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
get red-pilled. .you’ll be doing yourselves a favor.

[/quote]

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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I don’t hate women…I live in fear of them… not because of what they can do to me physically or emotionally, but legally.

I just can’t believe that they are permitted to do by society. im sure that if a lot of you guys did some research, your minds would be absolutely blown as well. get red-pilled. .you’ll be doing yourselves a favor.

I don’t know how society has degraded itself so far to reach this point… where cab drivers are forced to install cameras in their vehicles because of how commonly they are accused of rape… where a 30 year old woman can rape a 14 year old boy, become pregnant, and sue him for child support and win (doing no jail time), even though he is too young to even legally hold a job imagine if the roles were reversed.

women can and do easily ruin the lives of great men, simply because they want attention. great men have lost EVERYTHING, including their children, and decades of their lives, because a woman felt like she had been wrong. I feel like this is something that gets swept under the rug to the point of becoming ignored completely.

now again, I don’t hate women, im just afraid of the power they wield… as anyone who knows anything would be.

this story (as just about every other troll story), was for lulz. was not expecting to be caught in the first post… lol

[/quote]

Uhuh, and how many great women have had their lives ruined by a man holding a knife or gun to their throat while viciously penetrating them?

Basically, what is your point? That life is ugly sometimes. No shit.

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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
so I just spent the last 4 days in county… apparently the judge did not deem me a flight risk despite my somewhat spotty record, so she was gracious enough to grant me bail…and a fairly reasonable one at that (considering what im being accused of)

so my room mates threw a Halloween party which got pretty big… all of the other parties around town had gotten rolled on, so everyone made their way to our house (which is pretty far away from others houses so we can be loud).

I had had a long day, so I decided to call it a night pretty early… my room is detached from the main house, so its reasonably quiet. about 20 minutes after I got in bed, a girl (we’ll call her Jane) pops into my room (totally wasted), says she’s tired, and asks if she can lay down for a little bit. Im too tired to care, so I say “sure”.

I wake up the next day with Jane basically sleeping on top of me… one of her friends bursts into my room kinda hysterically, and begins to freak out when she sees us in my bed… apparently her girlfriends who she came with had been looking for her all night and were freaking out because they couldn’t find her.

long story short, Jane’s boyfriend was also at the party, was tripping because he couldn’t find her… someone told her that she “slept” with me but left out the fact that it was in the literal, not figurative sense.

boyfriend is furious, yells at Jane, and breaks up with her. im sure im missing a lot of details. (this is all that my room mates were able to piece together now that im out of jail).

sooo… even though I don’t drink, am a virgin, she woke up completely dressed, and the rape kit (yes…Jane got a rape kit done…probably trying to convince her now ex-boyfriend that she really was raped in a desperate attempt for sympathy) came back negative, I have been charged with rape, and have a court date.

im pretty pissed… I don’t have the slightest clue who this girl is… never met her before. I don’t want to shovel out cash for a lawyer, but I know if I don’t, ill probably get “convicted” and get sentenced to 20 years like William Mcaffery (youtube it).

you know you lived in a pretty fucked up society when a girl can just cry on the witness stand and a guy gets sentenced to 20 years to life… this must be that “male privilege” I keep hearing about.

any suggestions?

[/quote]

I would suggest that someone rape you.

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[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I don’t hate women…I live in fear of them… not because of what they can do to me physically or emotionally, but legally.

I just can’t believe that they are permitted to do by society. im sure that if a lot of you guys did some research, your minds would be absolutely blown as well. get red-pilled. .you’ll be doing yourselves a favor.

I don’t know how society has degraded itself so far to reach this point… where cab drivers are forced to install cameras in their vehicles because of how commonly they are accused of rape… where a 30 year old woman can rape a 14 year old boy, become pregnant, and sue him for child support and win (doing no jail time), even though he is too young to even legally hold a job imagine if the roles were reversed.

women can and do easily ruin the lives of great men, simply because they want attention. great men have lost EVERYTHING, including their children, and decades of their lives, because a woman felt like she had been wrong. I feel like this is something that gets swept under the rug to the point of becoming ignored completely.

now again, I don’t hate women, im just afraid of the power they wield… as anyone who knows anything would be.

this story (as just about every other troll story), was for lulz. was not expecting to be caught in the first post… lol

[/quote]

Uhuh, and how many great women have had their lives ruined by a man holding a knife or gun to their throat while viciously penetrating them?

Basically, what is your point? That life is ugly sometimes. No shit. [/quote]

you are comparing a normal, typical, law-abiding man to a rapist… way to go. nice false equivalence

while we do have a lot of really sharp people on this site… I forgot how many idiots post here too lol.

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[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I don’t hate women…I live in fear of them… not because of what they can do to me physically or emotionally, but legally.

I just can’t believe that they are permitted to do by society. im sure that if a lot of you guys did some research, your minds would be absolutely blown as well. get red-pilled. .you’ll be doing yourselves a favor.

I don’t know how society has degraded itself so far to reach this point… where cab drivers are forced to install cameras in their vehicles because of how commonly they are accused of rape… where a 30 year old woman can rape a 14 year old boy, become pregnant, and sue him for child support and win (doing no jail time), even though he is too young to even legally hold a job imagine if the roles were reversed.

women can and do easily ruin the lives of great men, simply because they want attention. great men have lost EVERYTHING, including their children, and decades of their lives, because a woman felt like she had been wrong. I feel like this is something that gets swept under the rug to the point of becoming ignored completely.

now again, I don’t hate women, im just afraid of the power they wield… as anyone who knows anything would be.

this story (as just about every other troll story), was for lulz. was not expecting to be caught in the first post… lol

[/quote]

Uhuh, and how many great women have had their lives ruined by a man holding a knife or gun to their throat while viciously penetrating them?

Basically, what is your point? That life is ugly sometimes. No shit. [/quote]

you are comparing a normal, typical, law-abiding man to a rapist… way to go. nice false equivalence

while we do have a lot of really sharp people on this site… I forgot how many idiots post here too lol. [/quote]

No he compared a normal, typical, law-abiding man to a normal, typical, law-abiding woman.

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[quote]red04 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
I don’t hate women…I live in fear of them… not because of what they can do to me physically or emotionally, but legally.

I just can’t believe that they are permitted to do by society. im sure that if a lot of you guys did some research, your minds would be absolutely blown as well. get red-pilled. .you’ll be doing yourselves a favor.

I don’t know how society has degraded itself so far to reach this point… where cab drivers are forced to install cameras in their vehicles because of how commonly they are accused of rape… where a 30 year old woman can rape a 14 year old boy, become pregnant, and sue him for child support and win (doing no jail time), even though he is too young to even legally hold a job imagine if the roles were reversed.

women can and do easily ruin the lives of great men, simply because they want attention. great men have lost EVERYTHING, including their children, and decades of their lives, because a woman felt like she had been wrong. I feel like this is something that gets swept under the rug to the point of becoming ignored completely.

now again, I don’t hate women, im just afraid of the power they wield… as anyone who knows anything would be.

this story (as just about every other troll story), was for lulz. was not expecting to be caught in the first post… lol

[/quote]

Uhuh, and how many great women have had their lives ruined by a man holding a knife or gun to their throat while viciously penetrating them?

Basically, what is your point? That life is ugly sometimes. No shit. [/quote]

you are comparing a normal, typical, law-abiding man to a rapist… way to go. nice false equivalence

while we do have a lot of really sharp people on this site… I forgot how many idiots post here too lol. [/quote]

No he compared a normal, typical, law-abiding man to a normal, typical, law-abiding woman.[/quote]

Lol…

Do I need to use crayons Walkway?