[quote]Makavali wrote:
[quote]RSGZ wrote:
[quote]Vegita wrote:
Punch him in the face.
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Honestly, just stop pussy footing about and take this route.
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unless…you’re afraid of the guy 
I feel as though we all need to calm the fuck down. Am I the only person who noticed that the OP has disappeared.
Its like a phenomenon on T-Nation that every once a while an interesting thread will pop up with either a out of the box OP or/and a compelling story where in between the second and third pages the OP basically vanishes and the thread just goes on. The most prominent of this kind that I can remember was that dude who wanted his body fat estimated from a picture where he was lookin ‘g’ holding a shoe.
The consensus here is that the OP is a passive aggressive pussy, a judgment without much evidence behind it besides the initial scenario set by him. However the longer the OP puts off responding to some posters accusations and advice the more we’re going to stand by our opinion that he is. I can already picture the guy crying in his room.
T-Nation can really be a cruel place. Not because the posters are cruel in themselves but because they have an uncanny ability to put people back into fucking reality. Real T-men and ummm, PMPM?
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
She’s been taking it up the ass from him for months.[/quote]
Your my new hero!
its up to your girl to tell him, not you. if she doesn’t tell him then she likes it and wants it to continue.
My guess is this. OP, youâ??re the young guy who hasnâ??t had very many gfâ??s in the past. You havenâ??t learned the vast amount of knowledge that many guys on this site have, setting aside the ever so often douche bag hijacking the shit out of your thread with the retarded blue taco mess. Seriously, fucking tards.
Youâ??re that young guy that lets his GF run all over him, get away with anything and everything. You DONâ??T stand up to her, and you DONâ??T properly voice your opinion. You ignore things and let them go because you â??thinkâ?? that everything is perfect and nothing could go wrong because you â??loveâ?? her and vice versa. Truth is buddy, women HATE guys that have no respect for themselves. Maybe youâ??re a really nice guy, just not very defensive, very passive like everyone has stated. As you get older, you MAY be able to get away with this with older women who are looking for solid relationship type guys, but these younger women, women youâ??re dating and subjected to, donâ??t usually give two fucks and like to play stupid games and get bossed around.
Truth is, based on what info youâ??ve given us here, and how youâ??ve stated it, your GF is or has lost interest in you and is beginning to show this by allowing and liking the aggressive attention of this guy in your class, OR the small chance that she wants YOU to show her that you really can be a MAN and stand up for her, especially if he is doing this in front of you in class.
If you arenâ??t in the same class with her, you need to straight TELL HER, make your STANCE KNOWN TO HER, that she needs to tell this guy to fuck off because you are beginning to think she likes this. Or to straight IGNORE him. If she comes back after class and says she did so, either ignored him, sat on the other side of class, or told him to fuck off then hopefully youâ??re relationship is strong enough to trust and believe her and go about your business.
If she continues to take no FIRM action against this guy, well, sorry to say my friend, but sheâ??s most definitely interested. And whether it happens now or later, she will start to drift away from you and most likely YOU WILL be crushed.
Now, if I was in the same class with her and saw and heard this shit happening, ESPECIALLY him saying he wants to touch her ass, I would FUCK HIM UP. As SOON as he says something like that, I donâ??t give a fuck what kind of trouble I get in, that motherfucker is getting my fist in his mouth, and by you not doing that, itâ??s showing your GF that youâ??re not the â??Alphaâ?? male and very passive. No matter whether or not girls will admit it, but itâ??s in their nature to go for the Alpha Mentality in guys. It may not be the ONLY trait, but by nature it is ONE of the traits females tend to go for in men.
So Just like everyone elseâ?¦.give us some updates damnit!!!
[quote]football061 wrote:
My guess is this. OP, youâ??re the young guy who hasnâ??t had very many gfâ??s in the past. You havenâ??t learned the vast amount of knowledge that many guys on this site have, setting aside the ever so often douche bag hijacking the shit out of your thread with the retarded blue taco mess. Seriously, fucking tards.
Youâ??re that young guy that lets his GF run all over him, get away with anything and everything. You DONâ??T stand up to her, and you DONâ??T properly voice your opinion. You ignore things and let them go because you â??thinkâ?? that everything is perfect and nothing could go wrong because you â??loveâ?? her and vice versa. Truth is buddy, women HATE guys that have no respect for themselves. Maybe youâ??re a really nice guy, just not very defensive, very passive like everyone has stated. As you get older, you MAY be able to get away with this with older women who are looking for solid relationship type guys, but these younger women, women youâ??re dating and subjected to, donâ??t usually give two fucks and like to play stupid games and get bossed around.
Truth is, based on what info youâ??ve given us here, and how youâ??ve stated it, your GF is or has lost interest in you and is beginning to show this by allowing and liking the aggressive attention of this guy in your class, OR the small chance that she wants YOU to show her that you really can be a MAN and stand up for her, especially if he is doing this in front of you in class.
If you arenâ??t in the same class with her, you need to straight TELL HER, make your STANCE KNOWN TO HER, that she needs to tell this guy to fuck off because you are beginning to think she likes this. Or to straight IGNORE him. If she comes back after class and says she did so, either ignored him, sat on the other side of class, or told him to fuck off then hopefully youâ??re relationship is strong enough to trust and believe her and go about your business.
If she continues to take no FIRM action against this guy, well, sorry to say my friend, but sheâ??s most definitely interested. And whether it happens now or later, she will start to drift away from you and most likely YOU WILL be crushed.
Now, if I was in the same class with her and saw and heard this shit happening, ESPECIALLY him saying he wants to touch her ass, I would FUCK HIM UP. As SOON as he says something like that, I donâ??t give a fuck what kind of trouble I get in, that motherfucker is getting my fist in his mouth, and by you not doing that, itâ??s showing your GF that youâ??re not the â??Alphaâ?? male and very passive. No matter whether or not girls will admit it, but itâ??s in their nature to go for the Alpha Mentality in guys. It may not be the ONLY trait, but by nature it is ONE of the traits females tend to go for in men.
So Just like everyone elseâ?¦.give us some updates damnit!!!
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Considered giving pep-talks as a career? You just motivated me to want to punch someone. Good post.
Good stuff.
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
Thread has so much fail so far. Seriously…are most of you teenagers?
If she is your girl as you say, and you’re in a committed relationship, much of the responsibility here fall directly and squarely upon her. It is up to HER to draw a line and tell this guy it’s inappropriate. Most guys do not hit on someone that is not receptive. Don’t believe me? Read all the threads on these various pages started by all the tools afraid to talk to a woman.
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This. If it were me the dude would still get a decent beating thrown his way though.
I am still laughing that you thought sending a facebook message was the mature way to handle something. Seriously, 6 pages of reading and a blue waffle later, and it’s still funny.
[quote]Magicpunch wrote:
[quote]football061 wrote:
My guess is this. OP, you�¢??re the young guy who hasn�¢??t had very many gf�¢??s in the past. You haven�¢??t learned the vast amount of knowledge that many guys on this site have, setting aside the ever so often douche bag hijacking the shit out of your thread with the retarded blue taco mess. Seriously, fucking tards.
You�¢??re that young guy that lets his GF run all over him, get away with anything and everything. You DON�¢??T stand up to her, and you DON�¢??T properly voice your opinion. You ignore things and let them go because you �¢??think�¢?? that everything is perfect and nothing could go wrong because you �¢??love�¢?? her and vice versa. Truth is buddy, women HATE guys that have no respect for themselves. Maybe you�¢??re a really nice guy, just not very defensive, very passive like everyone has stated. As you get older, you MAY be able to get away with this with older women who are looking for solid relationship type guys, but these younger women, women you�¢??re dating and subjected to, don�¢??t usually give two fucks and like to play stupid games and get bossed around.
Truth is, based on what info you�¢??ve given us here, and how you�¢??ve stated it, your GF is or has lost interest in you and is beginning to show this by allowing and liking the aggressive attention of this guy in your class, OR the small chance that she wants YOU to show her that you really can be a MAN and stand up for her, especially if he is doing this in front of you in class.
If you aren�¢??t in the same class with her, you need to straight TELL HER, make your STANCE KNOWN TO HER, that she needs to tell this guy to fuck off because you are beginning to think she likes this. Or to straight IGNORE him. If she comes back after class and says she did so, either ignored him, sat on the other side of class, or told him to fuck off then hopefully you�¢??re relationship is strong enough to trust and believe her and go about your business.
If she continues to take no FIRM action against this guy, well, sorry to say my friend, but she�¢??s most definitely interested. And whether it happens now or later, she will start to drift away from you and most likely YOU WILL be crushed.
Now, if I was in the same class with her and saw and heard this shit happening, ESPECIALLY him saying he wants to touch her ass, I would FUCK HIM UP. As SOON as he says something like that, I don�¢??t give a fuck what kind of trouble I get in, that motherfucker is getting my fist in his mouth, and by you not doing that, it�¢??s showing your GF that you�¢??re not the �¢??Alpha�¢?? male and very passive. No matter whether or not girls will admit it, but it�¢??s in their nature to go for the Alpha Mentality in guys. It may not be the ONLY trait, but by nature it is ONE of the traits females tend to go for in men.
So Just like everyone else�¢?�¦.give us some updates damnit!!!
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Considered giving pep-talks as a career? You just motivated me to want to punch someone. Good post.
Good stuff.
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Lol only on things that I think I know alot about haha.
Just trying to save a young guy some serious heart ache. I’ve been through enough and have learned alot, and I’m only 22, yet him being young he probably won’t listen to a word any serious post in here has said because like all young guys we think we know everything, and don’t want to believe anything until it happens and is too late.
This is EXACTLY why I NEVER go for women my age. I’ve had 5 gf’s since I was 18, my last 4 were at least 3 - 8 years older then myself.
Older women are the way to go if you’re a young guy looking to learn alot. Young women, 18-23 are the way to go if you’re looking for stupid games and heart ache, but some young Poontang.
[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
She’s been taking it up the ass from him for months.[/quote]
This was the very first thing that entered my mind when I started reading the OP. lol
[quote]Gilynn wrote:
I decided instead of just making threats to this guy I would try something more mature. I sent him a message on facebook…
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And this solidified it.
[quote]Vegita wrote:
[quote]Gilynn wrote:
I’ve been dating this girl for 6 months now and there is this guy in her chem class that constantly flirts with her. While I normally ignore the creeps this one is taking it too far in my opinion.
He has been trying to take her phone to look at her pictures, he asked her if she would go to the bathroom with him during class, tells her things like she is the type of girl who has pierced nipples and how much he wants to touch her ass.
I decided instead of just making threats to this guy I would try something more mature. I sent him a message on facebook saying how I don’t like how he talks to her especially since he KNOWS she has a boyfriend and that im going to see him before class tuesday to talk in person.
He claims I don’t know “what he is about” and that in a ADULT scenario this would be totally acceptable. We are both 19 and he is saying im acting like a highscooler. He claims im blowing this out of proportion.
He doesn’t seem to get the fact that I dont like him treating my girlfriend like that and I take it as disrespectful towards me that he says that kind of stuff knowing im dating her. I want nothing more than to bash his face in but im really trying to handle this in a better way.
Do you think its right that I am confronting him or should I just ignore it? [/quote]
Punch him in the face.
V[/quote]
Agreed
[quote]Gilynn wrote:
I’ve been dating this girl for 6 months now and there is this guy in her chem class that constantly flirts with her. While I normally ignore the creeps this one is taking it too far in my opinion.
He has been trying to take her phone to look at her pictures, he asked her if she would go to the bathroom with him during class, tells her things like she is the type of girl who has pierced nipples and how much he wants to touch her ass.
I decided instead of just making threats to this guy I would try something more mature. I sent him a message on facebook saying how I don’t like how he talks to her especially since he KNOWS she has a boyfriend and that im going to see him before class tuesday to talk in person.
He claims I don’t know “what he is about” and that in a ADULT scenario this would be totally acceptable. We are both 19 and he is saying im acting like a highscooler. He claims im blowing this out of proportion.
He doesn’t seem to get the fact that I dont like him treating my girlfriend like that and I take it as disrespectful towards me that he says that kind of stuff knowing im dating her. I want nothing more than to bash his face in but im really trying to handle this in a better way.
Do you think its right that I am confronting him or should I just ignore it? [/quote]
I definitely think you are. Just talk to him and tell him you really are uncomfortable with the way he acts around her. If he doesn’t back off then do something fun
[quote]Makavali wrote:
[quote]RSGZ wrote:
[quote]Vegita wrote:
Punch him in the face.
V[/quote]
Honestly, just stop pussy footing about and take this route.
/thread[/quote]
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Roundhouse kick maybe? be creative
doesn’t a facebook message mean he’s friends with this guy?
[quote]Lordcliff wrote:
doesn’t a facebook message mean he’s friends with this guy?[/quote]
Not necessarily, it would depend on privacy settings.
^^ also alot of people accept people they aren’t strictly friends with, if this guy is in his class/year more than likely he would of accepted him on Facebook.
[quote]1porsche wrote:
[quote]Makavali wrote:
[quote]RSGZ wrote:
[quote]Vegita wrote:
Punch him in the face.
V[/quote]
Honestly, just stop pussy footing about and take this route.
/thread[/quote]
this[/quote]
Roundhouse kick maybe? be creative
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Only Chuck Norris can do it right. Play it safe and stick with a friendly punch to the face imho.
I’m in the exact same situation right now. People on here give piss poor advice on just about every topic. Punching them in the face? this isn’t 'Nam, there are rules here. Unless you want to be sued and/or stuck with the medical bills from their ass kicking, then go right ahead. Shit man, that’s best case scenario.
Worst case you go to court, get a shithead judge who gets you on aggravated assault or all kinds of other shit. You end up with fines and/or time. That goes on your record. Have fun looking for a job that doesn’t involve busting rocks with your head.
So what do you do? Fucking nothing. Not unless you want to show up at the school and intimidate him. hopefully you’re big enough for that. i doubt you are or you wouldn’t be posting this. If you can get him somewhere on your terms and come to an agreement to a gentlemanly fisticuffs then congrats. Get him around a bunch of his and your friends and he’ll be too embarrassed to do anything about it. Chances are, you’ll never get to that point. You’ll just have to deal with it.
That’s life. Sorry dude.
[quote]DBCooper wrote:
slit his fucking throat[/quote]
Stick it in his pooper. FTW!!
Thread closed!
i said it before. its up to the girl to say something if she doesn’t like it. you teach people how to treat you.