[quote]Oleena wrote:
Mad_Duck wrote:
mbm693 wrote:
IrishSteel wrote:
Now - obviously, you either forgot or are choosing to ignore my explanation of the age of accountability. It is unique to each individual. If their physical development never reaches the point that their soul is able to understand/discern good from evil, then their free will could never make a morally culpable decision - they remain as innocent as the infant they really are in every sense of the emotional and mental state.
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What stands out to me in this situation is that these RAD children are the way they are solely because of their past experience. What I can’t see is how regular children are any different. They get different experiences, which may or may not prepare them for life as well adjusted adults, but I don’t see where they get any choice in how they behave. Even as adults, people are sill just products of the totality of their experience. Either they had traumatizing experiences that left them sociopaths, or they had good ones that made them a saint. But they are the way they are b/c of events beyond their control.
While I’m not going to try and argue that any young child has ‘control’ in a traumatic situation, and that there are frequently brain-chemistry-altering substances present (also beyond their control)… I remember during one of those employee-motivating seminars (w/e), the speaker they had brought in had a ‘parable’.
Two twins were born into an inner city, abusive & alcoholic household, dad left, single mom, etc etc etc. 20 years later, they interview the two young men, One’s in jail for robbery & assault, & the other’s got his degree & is ‘Young Businessman of the Year’ or whatever. When they ask them why they think they turned out so different, both of them give the answer: “With what I’ve witnessed, how could I have turned out any different?”
The point being, relinquishing responsibility for how one RESPONDS to circumstances, environment & experiences (for anyone over the age of 16 ~ I estimate): is infantile &/or dangerous.
Life is not black and white in terms of these matters.
The most powerful thing that I’ve seen is that you can train people like you would an animal. This leads me to believe that free will is non-existant.
For example, I have a girlfriend who trained her husband to be interested/involved in topics such as saving the environment, which he used to hate, by giving him a blow job every time he showed any progress/openness of thought towards those topics. She also majored in animal behavior. He became an environmentalist. It was not his will to do this originally, but she conditioned him to associate the topic with pleasure (to this day, he has no idea what truly changed his mind on the topic), so now he seeks it out.
You can train anyone, quietly, and without their knowledge. They will then make decisions based on the patterns that you taught them to associate with pain or pleasure. This happens every day anyways, it’s just that some people do it on purpose.
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You can make good vs. evil choices despite your circumstances. You choices may be different, but the choice you make is your own.
It does not matter much what you feel, it matters what you do.