Kindly point out where I mentioned “the Lord” in any of my posts. The fact is I never have, You are mistaken, as usual.
However, speaking of past posts I noticed that you have never contributed anything of value to this forum. Is that by design, or are you actually trying to prove that you are worthless?
You comparing an internet bitch cheating on you to 9/11 is way off the mark. Unless you two were in a serious relationship, it shouldn’t matter, to you, who sshe’s blowing. Maybe, if you took the time to meet people in person, you’d know what type of girl your dealing with.
Those who suggest moving on, I suppose after 9/11, did you say:
“move on… those people chose to be there, obviously. And we [USA collectively] get what we deserve, fucking around in other people’s oil, instrumenting regime change, etc. Shit happens”
Are you SERIOUSLY trying to compare what happened to you - the same bullshit that 99% of american males over the age of 15 have had to deal with at least once in there lives - to the darkest day in the 220 some-odd year history of our country? Do you have any idea how stupid that makes you sound? I’m getting angry just thinking about it. Move on after you foolishly fell for some bitch? Hell yeah. Move on after your country is attacked, over 5,000 people lie dead in the rubble of the twin towers AND the pentagon and the lives of countless family memebers are ruined? Never. Don’t EVER compare some petty little personal drama to that day. I certainly hope you regret posting that.
KBCThird and Bronx: While you live in New York and are more closely related to what happened there, I can respect that you’d feel a more personal tie to that event.
However, if you stand for something, you will be territorial, and with that comes protecting your territory.
And at the base, there is no difference. What is considered (i.e. may be subjective) your territory, you will defend.
Moving on doesn’t have to mean crawling under a rock with your tail between your legs, it means finishing things. Case in point, my 16 year old cousin. This kid was going out with a girl for almost a year, and he found out she’d been messing around with a guy from another school. Peter (my cousin) thinks there is no ‘manly’ way to end things, as he’s a rather laid back, shy kid and this girl is the class POA, most popular girl in school. I told him to rethink things, reminding him of several glorious bridge-burnings I’ve done myself, and a week later this is what happens.
Pete walked into the cafeteria during the biggest lunch period of the day and said something to the effect of, “I know about (insert name), whatever, I guess we’re through. But I’d like to be the bigger person in this and give you your stuff back.” A good number of people are giving him their attention, and in front of about 400 kids Pete drops a pair of well-worn soccer kneepads on her tray.
Apparently he didn’t hook up for a while but he now has a nice non-slut friend who he’s going to prom with, and Girl #1 was branded the class whore and lost many of her friends. Now THAT is moving on.
RCJ,
In all seriousness, the best revenge is to just walk away from this “relationship” without a word. She is obviously troubled. Don’t make her problems your problems. Cut your losses. Revenge is for people with too much time on their hands. You see the problem… Fail fast and move on.
And don’t fret about the guy… You need to run your own house. You can’t blame a guy who owes you nothing from turning down a free bj. Would you be any different?
Anyway, if she really does love you in her own twisted way, getting total silence from you will absolutely kill her.
Good luck, and I hope to see some good rock climbing posts out of you now.
ZEB: uhh… you DID come out a bit on the crotchety side when this thread got started. Honestly, a “shoot first, ask questions later” approach is not always the best.
RCJ: Yeah, you don’t have to kick some guy’s ass. You don’t even know what really happened. If you go and pound the hell out of this dude you’ll just look like an over-jealous, aggressive, insecure asshole. The best revenge (if you wanna call it that) on her, IMHO, would be to rock her shit so good that she can’t fathom the thought of being with anybody else. Then you don’t have to worry about her with some other slob, and you get to have the power in the relationship. Bide your time, bro, if you choose to stay with this girl and give her a chance. Good luck.
Here’s an idea. Do what I do and just use her for ass. Treat her like the whore she is. bang her, and dont call her for a month until u want to hit it again. What I dont understand is, if she was lookin for some new dick…why the hell just give him a blowjob??? That sounds dumb. I at least want some dick out of the deal.
Do what a buddy of mine does with all the women he meets on dating sites.
Pretend you know nothing, bang her until you get tired of it, delete your hotmail account and toss the prepaid cellular phone with the number you gave her in the trash and move on the the next one.