[quote]H factor wrote:
[quote]kamui wrote:
Now, more seriously
I have absolutely no hate for gay men. I just happen to prefer bisexual men.
If they insist to suck my balls while i fuck their girlfriend, i won’t always refuse. I simply won’t reciprocate.
I’m getting ready to get married. To a woman. I’ll keep Push up to date, he is REALLY interested in me. Thankfully despite his love affair he doesn’t support us getting married. Thankfully.
The rules for marriage have changed many times throughout history in many different cultures. Now all the sudden we shouldn’t change those rules? Why not? Even if the MAJORITY (not the fucking minority) of citizens agree that we SHOULD change those rules? You know other cultures have lifted bans on interracial and interfaith marriages as well. Do you oppose those moves? That was changing a social institution to give a privilege to a minority.
Soon enough the minority will be handcuffing the majority on the issue. The majority of people WANT change. This is not going anywhere but more and more and more towards support. So in 10 years if 70% of people support change don’t do it? 80% in 20 years? Why not? The institution has been changed NUMEROUS times throughout history already.
http://theweek.com/article/index/228541/how-marriage-has-changed-over-centuries
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Not a single ounce of this is relevant at all to the conversation that should be going on.
Same-ex marriage isn’t about discrimination of a minority, because it isn’t discrimination of a minority. You can’t compare it to inter-racial marriage. ANd any way marriage has changed outside the bounds of the American government is irrelevant as well.
The most basic bareboned question being asked is: should two people of the same sex be able to enter into the legal contract that is government recognized marriage?
Seeing as every single person in America is one of the two sexes, there is no minority, and there is therefore no discrimination.
Government recognized marriage has nothign to do with love, zero to do with sex. In no way, shape or form do either of those matter, what-so-ever to the government. What matters is two concenting adults that aren’t closely related wish to enter into a contract. No where on the contract I signed did I have to tell Uncle Sam I was in love, or who or what I prefered to have sex with.
People like to attach the “gay movement” lable to this issue because it gives them some sort of moral high ground and then they can talk about their “gay friends” just like their “black friends”. But in the real world, sexual attraction has nothing to do with the issue at hand.
That said, I see no reason why two people of the same sex shouldn’t be allowed to check “married filing joint” or be on each other’s health insurance. Because let’s face it, that is all this is about. Because if two people wanted, they could find a church that would marry them, and they could live like a married couple, and it doesn’t matter what the government thinks.
This is about benefits, and money… It is about property when you boil it down. Pretty silly. And I’m going to lol hard when two women who are on trial for murder marry so they don’t have to testify…