[quote]USMCpoolee wrote:
[quote]Brother Chris wrote:
[quote]CappedAndPlanIt wrote:
[quote]Dre the Hatchet wrote:
[quote]Brother Chris wrote:
[quote]USMCpoolee wrote:
[quote]ZEB wrote:
[quote]forlife wrote:
Discussed to death in other threads. Yes, it’s great if a child can be raised by healthy, competent biological parents. However, there are millions of children with abusive parents, deceased parents, etc. who are far better off being raised by loving, committed adoptive gay parents than staying in a toxic family situation, or being raised by an institution.
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This is a patently false self-serving post. There are no long-term studies to prove that children are better off living with two homosexuals. Furthermore, there is no proof that being homosexual is genetic. That means that perhaps (just maybe) children being raised by two homosexuals would have a much higher degree of becoming a homosexual. Certainly until we know how one becomes a homosexual (or why) we should never put children in the care of homosexuals.
Stop the propaganda forlife it’s really getting old.[/quote]
Not being a devils advocate, I am honestly curious, why does homosexuality=bad? [/quote]
Against man’s nature, it is disordered.[/quote]
Ahh, the hypocrite going at it again.
Say, isn’t getting hand-jobs from cheap strippers considered an act of fornication in that so-called faith you proclaim? But yet, you see yourself fit to judge others because of their characteristics?
Also, I they catholic church is so much against homosexuality, why did it and continues to do absolutely nothing to stop the rampant homosexual contact between priests and church boys? Double standards, anyone?[/quote]
They probably downplay the issue because it makes them look bad and propagates the stereotype that all preists are child molesters.[/quote]
I can’t speak on motives of the people that hid the child molesters, I can only repeat what I have heard. I can tell you that reporting on scandal is a no-no. However, not protecting innocent persons is the first of all big no-no’s. And, this double standard…hypocrites thing is an ad hominem. Oh…you are telling someone they did something wrong? Well, you did something wrong, too!
Well, guess what. Everyone does something wrong, so…are we just supposed to let everyone do what they want, even if it is wrong because we have done something wrong. That doesn’t make sense. As well, being silent about someone’s wrong doing makes you as culpable as the person that did something wrong. [/quote]
What do you mean about reporting on it is a no no? Is that reporting from within the Church?
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Basically creating scandal. If your mother say…had an affair, stole something from the store, or hit you unjustly would you publicize it and create scandal about your mother. Or, would you confront her about it? And, what if she didn’t listen to you, would you make it public or would you try to have an intervention with a few people that were close to you and your mother so that it was discrete? And, if the intervention was ineffective you would obviously have to go a more public route of using some kind of legal, medical, &c. help to prevent your mother from doing such harmful things to others, herself, and her family. But, would you put it in the newspaper so that your neighbors and her enemies would know about her transgressions? I’d say no, however I can’t answer for you.
Same with the Church, we understand what our image means. So, creating scandal is a no-no. But, I can’t speak on if what these Bishops and others did was preventing scandal, or what. However, they forgot the first principle in these situations, and it was a grievous offense that they did…that no innocent person, especially children should be allowed to be hurt.
They could have corrected the situation and protected the innocent people without creating public scandal. Instead, these persons who thought it better to keep completely quiet instead of protecting innocent children did nothing in some instances, and merely moved priests to another location in some instances. The cases or stories in which priests were found to have sexual tendencies towards those under age that were handled correctly are far and few in between. Not, because they didn’t happen, I am sure there are cases, but the attitude to not go against the Church was also there.
I have heard of one story about a seminarian who was found to have a psycho-sexual (whatever the term is) tendency towards 14-17 year olds. He was denied the priesthood, but he was allowed to enter a monastery and become a monk. Now he spends his days in prayer and penance and following the Rule and doing so fills the hours of his day between study, prayer, and labor, mostly in silence. This is what they could have done for these priests that were found to have to such inclinations. However, they didn’t and a great scandal broke out, not because of those in the Church but those outside the Church. And, as Fr. Corapi says if we do not clean up our own mess, G-d lets those that are against us clean it up for us.