I still think having hot female friends and intentionally not sleeping with them is the way to go.
Assuming you are getting laid regularly (and you’re not married), there seem to be a lot of advantages to it.
Like… practicing self restraint, practicing talking to hot women so you don’t get tongue-tied when you meet a hot girl you actually like, getting a second opinion on your new girl’s behavior: is she just being a woman or is she actually batshit crazy?, using petty female jealousy/competition to your advantage (especially since they play the games so you don’t have to), advice on fashion/behavior/aesthetics/whatever that most straight guys just can’t give you… and of course, it’s still fun to flirt. You can have a lot of “fun” with women without sleeping with them.
But again, the prerequisite is that you’re already getting laid regularly. Otherwise you really don’t get those advantages, since your “friends” either take pity on you, or they’re guarding themselves from your [potential] advances.
[quote]eatingfeelings wrote:
I’m in my 20s and I have MANY male friends… only one of them acts like he wants me (he’s been grabbing my boobs when he’s really drunk). another offered me his “services” when he found out i haven’t gotten laid for about half a year (but he’ll fuck anything: women, men, any hole pretty much). others never hit on me. some of them just really love dancing and we’ll dance together (not touching each other/freak dancing). i’ve been so drunk i was barely able to walk while with them and none of them (even the one that grabs my boobs) ever tried anything. honestly, we’re just all “party animals” and we just party/have fun together. Maybe it’s because we’re in our 20s…
yeah, they’re not “pussies” and some are very much alpha with other girls. that’s just the way our relationship has always been, lines were drawn early on and they’re just being respectful of that.
P.S. I’m not ugly. I’m cute, I do lots of squats and I’m a D-cup. [/quote]
And, I’m Brian Wilson. [/quote]
Thank god! Maybe you can help me with this problem I’ve been having:
Well, I’m getting bugged driving up and down the same old strip. I’ve gotta find a new place where the kids are hip.
[quote]dudsman wrote:
I totally agree with the article. My missus has a male friend that she knew before she meet me. He rings her and visits our home every now & then and in fact she was his ‘best man’ at his wedding. They used to hang out before i was around for shits & giggles but she swears to me they never did anything, nor would she ever consider it. But im not fucking stupid, if i wasnt on the scene or his wife, i have no doubt he would be trying his hardest to bang her fucking brains out. And im sure it he fantasizes about fucking her all the time. I just cant stand the fake bullshit that goes on.
My teenage step-daughter has gone through the same shit, thinking its cool to have a bunch of teenage boys as her besties. Its caused her nothing but trouble in her schooling when all of a sudden her boy ‘friends’ start crying, telling her they want to more than friends blah blah…
It reminds me of a time when me and my missus split for about 6 months a few years ago. I was amazed at how many of these so called male ‘friends’ started sniffing around trying take advantage of the situation & offered a shoulder to cry on (as well as a cock to sit on). I dont trust any of these fucken plutonic friends & this is backed up by the comments made by people in this thread. [/quote]
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
Yeah it really causes its fair share of problems. Make you feel like an incomplete man lol.[/quote]
It does, but what can you do? Who wants to be known as the controlling husband who doesn’t trust his own wife with other men. Better off just letting it slide, if shes gonna cheat she will do it regardless of what you do. Btw i do trust my wife, just annoys me hows she believes that the male friend wouldn’t fuck her if she let it happen. Though this seems like a common thing among women after reading the article
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
Yeah it really causes its fair share of problems. Make you feel like an incomplete man lol.[/quote]
It does, but what can you do? Who wants to be known as the controlling husband who doesn’t trust his own wife with other men. Better off just letting it slide, if shes gonna cheat she will do it regardless of what you do. Btw i do trust my wife, just annoys me hows she believes that the male friend wouldn’t fuck her if she let it happen. Though this seems like a common thing among women after reading the article[/quote]
I’m not married and I don’t expect to be for a while. I’ve only just turned 19, so I can only really speak from the realized perspective of a male with hot female friends. Anything else from me is merely conjecture, deduction, induction, and intrinsic theory which I do very well, but yeah it’s an unavoidable stressor for many parties.
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