Friend Thinks He's Better Than Me

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[quote]MarvelGirl wrote:
Maybe it’s time to rethink his position as a “good friend”. I know a lot of people seemed to get hooked on the concept of friends to the end, and complete loyalty, but the reality is that people change and priorities shift. It’s not a bad thing, it’s just life. I’ve had friends that I grew apart from because we just didn’t have much in common anymore, some of them have phased back into my life over time, and some haven’t, it’s no big deal. I just don’t have the energy to maintain a friendship out of some sort of obligation to the past.[/quote]

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I would hope once I stopped drinking with my friends every weekend and pretty much hanging out with them all together because of their habits… that they didn’t see me as a d-bag. I hope they were bright enough to realise I just have higher goals and different priorities now.

But of course, if they do see me as a d-bag… well… that’s life. They can keep getting drunk and banging fat chicks all they want… I’ll stick to my goals with lifting and my girl.

I have had friends who really got under my skin too. Primarily my ‘bestfriend’ Nick used to really , really get under my skin. He would always piss me off with everything he could think of to say related to my stature and strength. I heard that I was stronger than him because I am shorter than him ALOT. And it REALLY bothered me. Here he is, 6’0", 190lbs… I am 5’2" at an embarassing weight… but I can out squat, out benchpress, out military press, out curl, out flye, pretty much out anything him… he used to tell me I could military press more because I was shorter. He pulled every classic arguement about short lifters having an advantage you could think of. Less energy… shorter ROM… better leverages… etc.

But no. The fact is he is just a weak bastard (although he has some awesome fat displacement) that is VERY insecure. After months of letting him bother me though… I learned to let it go. Why let other’s insecurities bring you down?

If it bothers you he thinks he is better than you… wouldn’t that mean you think you are better than him? He may be insecure … but maybe you are yourself as well.

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Fuck it get a new friend

people ome and go man

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[quote]krazykoukides wrote:
MarvelGirl wrote:
Maybe it’s time to rethink his position as a “good friend”. I know a lot of people seemed to get hooked on the concept of friends to the end, and complete loyalty, but the reality is that people change and priorities shift. It’s not a bad thing, it’s just life. I’ve had friends that I grew apart from because we just didn’t have much in common anymore, some of them have phased back into my life over time, and some haven’t, it’s no big deal. I just don’t have the energy to maintain a friendship out of some sort of obligation to the past.

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I would hope once I stopped drinking with my friends every weekend and pretty much hanging out with them all together because of their habits… that they didn’t see me as a d-bag. I hope they were bright enough to realise I just have higher goals and different priorities now.

But of course, if they do see me as a d-bag… well… that’s life. They can keep getting drunk and banging fat chicks all they want… I’ll stick to my goals with lifting and my girl.

I have had friends who really got under my skin too. Primarily my ‘bestfriend’ Nick used to really , really get under my skin. He would always piss me off with everything he could think of to say related to my stature and strength. I heard that I was stronger than him because I am shorter than him ALOT. And it REALLY bothered me. Here he is, 6’0", 190lbs… I am 5’2" at an embarassing weight… but I can out squat, out benchpress, out military press, out curl, out flye, pretty much out anything him… he used to tell me I could military press more because I was shorter. He pulled every classic arguement about short lifters having an advantage you could think of. Less energy… shorter ROM… better leverages… etc.

But no. The fact is he is just a weak bastard (although he has some awesome fat displacement) that is VERY insecure. After months of letting him bother me though… I learned to let it go. Why let other’s insecurities bring you down?

If it bothers you he thinks he is better than you… wouldn’t that mean you think you are better than him? He may be insecure … but maybe you are yourself as well.
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First of all, I don’t want him to hang out with me to get wasted all the time(maybe sometimes) but when you disappear out of the radar after being there all the time,and the way it happened, Its gonna piss you off a bit. I mean, If your gonna move to Europe for a year to better yourself, I support that, but If your gonna completely turn your back on a friend over a girl, come on… Its gonna piss any guy off.

I guess you’re right about the title. Mehhh I’m not insecure just pissed of any guy would and I’m just using this forum to vent.

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[quote]corey_31 wrote:
haha ive seen that before on tv, family guy i tihnk

anywyas just fuck his girl, thatll shut him up[/quote]

That will work for sure!!

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slit his throat. the world is better off with out shit talkers.

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lol
this reminds me of 5th grade

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friends change once they get permanent pussy

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I remember my first beer…

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Who gives a fuck?

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[quote]DF85 wrote:
slit his throat. the world is better off with out shit talkers.[/quote]

Then after u slit his throat, jizz in the wound while screaming “EAT MY CUM!”

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[quote]Stength4life wrote:
friends change once they get permanent pussy[/quote]

Word!!

Thats the gayest avatar I’ve ever seen.

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Maybe he is better than you and you need to come to terms with that.

DB