Ever Feel Like a Thread Killer? (5)

[quote]WolBarret wrote:

[quote]CBear84 wrote:

[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
I’ve never supported forum suicide…but damn, C…damn.[/quote]

so the vodka is kicking in

(mixing it with pink lemonade crystal light. better than i thought, actually)

edited for stupidity[/quote]

I told you alcohol solves everything. You’re only forgetting the Ignore button.[/quote]

I can’t hit ignore I need this shit for evidence. I wish that was a joke. Mods asked if I wanted that shit deleted. I had to say no.

can we be friends again? I know u like me an I like u too. I just like giving u shit.

[quote]CBear84 wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

Cbear, if your having emotional dude troubles I’m great at that shit. I been through some pretty messed up shit as a kid, and spend a large part of my life an emotional mess. [/quote]

ok cool.

help me figure out why he creates his own reality where, “I dont want you to contact me in any way,”

turns into,

“jim said that the real reason you’re upset is because he’s not talking to you.”

and how even though hes moved on with his life he reads my log to check on my training and when i’ll be in town.

fwiw, the last few times ive been offline for a few days, is bc i’ve had company in town. [/quote]

How long had he been contemplating ending it before he said statement A?

Did statement B come from someone he wants to impress and/or have a high standing with?

This is very important:

Did he have a backup/rebound/another chick waiting when it ended?

[quote]CBear84 wrote:

[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
I’ve never supported forum suicide…but damn, C…damn.[/quote]

so the vodka is kicking in and i have to ask if you mean that i just shot myself in the foot or if me leaving T-Nation would be suicide

(mixing it with pink lemonade crystal light. better than i thought, actually)[/quote]

I think she means that leaving would be suicide. Though, maybe taking a break would be a good idea. You shouldn’t have to change because he can’t deal with it, but if he’s that creepy, he doesn’t need to know anymore about your life.

[quote]CBear84 wrote:

[quote]WolBarret wrote:

[quote]CBear84 wrote:

[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
I’ve never supported forum suicide…but damn, C…damn.[/quote]

so the vodka is kicking in

(mixing it with pink lemonade crystal light. better than i thought, actually)

edited for stupidity[/quote]

I told you alcohol solves everything. You’re only forgetting the Ignore button.[/quote]

I can’t hit ignore I need this shit for evidence. I wish that was a joke. Mods asked if I wanted that shit deleted. I had to say no.

can we be friends again? I know u like me an I like u too. I just like giving u shit. [/quote]

When were we enemies? I give everybody shit. Especially grizzly bears from Ohio.

WolBarret has only two enemies = Waffles and the Elderly

[quote]CBear84 wrote:

[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
I’ve never supported forum suicide…but damn, C…damn.[/quote]

so the vodka is kicking in and i have to ask if you mean that i just shot myself in the foot or if me leaving T-Nation would be suicide

(mixing it with pink lemonade crystal light. better than i thought, actually)[/quote]

I’ve been a regular on forums since about 1997. Every time someone makes a big production about leaving a forum, I call it forum suicide, and I think it is retarded. If you want to leave, tell your friends so they don’t worry, and just leave.

But what you’re dealing with would make me commit forum murder.

Try vodka and the wild cherry Fresca.

I have to sleep, I will give my honest feedback in the am.

quoting is too complicated rite now

pcs2- there’s already so much i haven’t been posting, and if im gonna do this shit i wanna be myself… damnit. crazy son of a bitch.

beans- he told me he was moving to CO about 2 weeks before he did. I threw my fit and drank that night, bc I figured it was over, and the next day we talked about making it work and staying together. we were already long distance, and i had school coming up, so it didnt seem like that big of a deal. however, i started coping with my loss at that point. he ended it the day I was sposed to drive down there/he was sposed to drive up here for our goodbye weekend. so, i cant say for sure.

statement B came from a mutual friend via the grapevine. aka, jim said this to person 1 (who i know and trust), who said it to person 2 (also who I know and trust).

because we dont live in the same town its hard to tell. I know he’s been on a date (weeks and weeks post breakup) with someone, and the bet among our mutual friends was how much he would talk about me on his date with her. If he had someone, everyone is doing a very good job of keeping it quiet, but I’m gonna guess no.

Before I go to bed, I just wanted to give a quick PSA.

Right now as this very moment, we have drunk people posting all over T-Nation. Drunk posting is the no.1 killer of T-members since 2005. Friends don’t let friends post drunk.

But if your friends do post drunk, copy and paste that shit! Blackmail is never out of style.

Good night!

P.S.

Pancakes

i’d have 1/4 the posts if i didnt post drunk. I’m ok until i forget which way the parentheses go.

CBear!!!

Damn, woman… I was wondering what was up with you these days. You definitely haven’t been yourself… For good reason, unfortunately.

Like the others have said; Take some time off… But, don’t leave. Please.

Just your presence alone makes this site a better place.

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

I would say it is mostly my disdain for ignorance.
[/quote]

Ah, we must spread the truth! What was that truth again? :wink:

Sorry but I have no idea what 170lb guru you’re referring to, what are his cutting methods? I’m starting to diet down so I’m looking around for stuff, though I’m pretty set on doing things in a very basic manner…

[quote]imhungry wrote:

Like the others have said; Take some time off… But, don’t leave. Please.

Just your presence alone makes this site a better place.[/quote]

QFT

[quote]WolBarret wrote:
Before I go to bed, I just wanted to give a quick PSA.

Right now as this very moment, we have drunk people posting all over T-Nation. Drunk posting is the no.1 killer of T-members since 2005. Friends don’t let friends post drunk.

But if your friends do post drunk, copy and paste that shit! Blackmail is never out of style.

Good night!

P.S.

Pancakes[/quote]
Snagit software (a screenshot is worth so much more for blackmail)

After extensive food research, I’ve determined that 12oz of Fatburgers isn’t quite sufficient, but that if you slap a third patty in there, IT GETS THE JOB DONE!

[quote]WolBarret wrote:
Before I go to bed, I just wanted to give a quick PSA.

Right now as this very moment, we have drunk people posting all over T-Nation. Drunk posting is the no.1 killer of T-members since 2005. Friends don’t let friends post drunk.

But if your friends do post drunk, copy and paste that shit! Blackmail is never out of style.

Good night!

P.S.

Waffles[/quote]

Well okay if you say so. Here’s a link for ya Wol.

http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&tab=wi&q=Delicious%20waffles

[quote]CBear84 wrote:
quoting is too complicated rite now

pcs2- there’s already so much i haven’t been posting, and if im gonna do this shit i wanna be myself… damnit. crazy son of a bitch.

beans- he told me he was moving to CO about 2 weeks before he did. I threw my fit and drank that night, bc I figured it was over, and the next day we talked about making it work and staying together. we were already long distance, and i had school coming up, so it didnt seem like that big of a deal. however, i started coping with my loss at that point. he ended it the day I was sposed to drive down there/he was sposed to drive up here for our goodbye weekend. so, i cant say for sure.

statement B came from a mutual friend via the grapevine. aka, jim said this to person 1 (who i know and trust), who said it to person 2 (also who I know and trust).

because we dont live in the same town its hard to tell. I know he’s been on a date (weeks and weeks post breakup) with someone, and the bet among our mutual friends was how much he would talk about me on his date with her. If he had someone, everyone is doing a very good job of keeping it quiet, but I’m gonna guess no. [/quote]

Based on the details I do know, just be out. Be done with him and chalk it up to lesson learned.

As to why it happened: I have theories, but I’ll refrain as I don’t know the situation well.

Where is head is at now: regret, remorse, indecision, loss of control. All natural things that are very difficult to deal with. If I had to guess he had a lot invested in you emotionally and didn’t really think the break-up through enough.

How old is he? How dark is his past (no need for details here.)

I haven’t pooped since Monday morning. It’s now Friday. I’ve bulked this week without even lifting a weight or eating big…fml.

[quote]ucallthatbass wrote:
I haven’t pooped since Monday morning. It’s now Friday. I’ve bulked this week without even lifting a weight or eating big…fml.[/quote]

Fucking bar association “Well, we kept you on as a member through October 2009, so you have to pay for all of 2009 and 2010.”

Okay, well, maybe next time you could let me know when it’s time to renew my membership? Bunch of incompetent fuckers.

[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
Fucking bar association “Well, we kept you on as a member through October 2009, so you have to pay for all of 2009 and 2010.”

Okay, well, maybe next time you could let me know when it’s time to renew my membership? Bunch of incompetent fuckers.[/quote]

I am sorry for YOU, PMPM, but look at it how everybody else sees it. You’ve got lawyers fucking over a lawyer. That’s pretty much win-win for everyone else on the planet

[quote]Mad_Duck wrote:

[quote]pushmepullme wrote:
Fucking bar association “Well, we kept you on as a member through October 2009, so you have to pay for all of 2009 and 2010.”

Okay, well, maybe next time you could let me know when it’s time to renew my membership? Bunch of incompetent fuckers.[/quote]

I am sorry for YOU, PMPM, but look at it how everybody else sees it. You’ve got lawyers fucking over a lawyer. That’s pretty much win-win for everyone else on the planet[/quote]

Wait, that could be a porn…I think you’re onto something here, Duck…

We’ll make millions.