[quote]CBear84 wrote:
quoting is too complicated rite now
pcs2- there’s already so much i haven’t been posting, and if im gonna do this shit i wanna be myself… damnit. crazy son of a bitch.
beans- he told me he was moving to CO about 2 weeks before he did. I threw my fit and drank that night, bc I figured it was over, and the next day we talked about making it work and staying together. we were already long distance, and i had school coming up, so it didnt seem like that big of a deal. however, i started coping with my loss at that point. he ended it the day I was sposed to drive down there/he was sposed to drive up here for our goodbye weekend. so, i cant say for sure.
statement B came from a mutual friend via the grapevine. aka, jim said this to person 1 (who i know and trust), who said it to person 2 (also who I know and trust).
because we dont live in the same town its hard to tell. I know he’s been on a date (weeks and weeks post breakup) with someone, and the bet among our mutual friends was how much he would talk about me on his date with her. If he had someone, everyone is doing a very good job of keeping it quiet, but I’m gonna guess no. [/quote]
Based on the details I do know, just be out. Be done with him and chalk it up to lesson learned.
As to why it happened: I have theories, but I’ll refrain as I don’t know the situation well.
Where is head is at now: regret, remorse, indecision, loss of control. All natural things that are very difficult to deal with. If I had to guess he had a lot invested in you emotionally and didn’t really think the break-up through enough.
How old is he? How dark is his past (no need for details here.)