[quote]sonnyp wrote:
I think most of the men on this thread would be ashamed to tell thier mothers/daughters/sisters that they think it is OK for a man in his thirties to have sex with an 18 year old girl.[/quote]
I was 31 having sex with a 19/20 year old. ;-)[/quote]
Did she have a birthday during that time?
[quote]Professor X wrote:
I wasn’t aware until this thread that it was “bad” for a 32 year old to have sex with an 18 year old.
It is LEGAL.
Isn’t that all that matters socially?
Anything else is a personal issue it seems.[/quote]
You are right, it is legal. It also means you like to have sex with barely not children. If you are okay with that I guess it is on you. It is predatory IMO.[/quote]
College age is not “barely not children”?
You serious with this? Most 18 year old girls I knew were doing shit most 30 years olds today would not do.[/quote]
I was talking 18 and under. Yes, 18 is barely not a child mentally no matter their level of sexual experience. Have you talked to many 18 year old girls lately?[/quote]
Dude, I know I was no idiot at that age. I don’t care what average is. [/quote]
You obviously don’t have daughters. If you are 32 and show up at my house with my teenage daughter don’t expect a warm welcome.
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In my case the girl lied and told her dad I was like 24. I didn’t know she did it until later, but I can pull it off since I look much younger than I really am, especially when i’m clean shaven.
[quote]sonnyp wrote:
I think most of the men on this thread would be ashamed to tell thier mothers/daughters/sisters that they think it is OK for a man in his thirties to have sex with an 18 year old girl.[/quote]
I was 31 having sex with a 19/20 year old. ;-)[/quote]
Did she have a birthday during that time?[/quote]
Ha, yup.
She was kinky as hell. She took it in the ass like no other girl I’ve been with.
I expect my daughter to have a healthy sex life when appropriate, and only she can decide when that is. My eldest is 15 1/2 and I know has had sex. Her boyfriend is seventeen and we sat them both down and explained that while we didn’t condone it and it was not legal, we know we cannot control her.
I expect my daughter to have a healthy sex life when appropriate, and only she can decide when that is. My eldest is 15 1/2 and I know has had sex. Her boyfriend is seventeen and we sat them both down and explained that while we didn’t condone it and it was not legal, we know we cannot control her.
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But you can control him…
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Yup[/quote]
Really you can’t. I can threaten harm or even carry it out, but what will that accomplish? It will either drive her to side with him or there will be another to take his place. The bodies could start to pile up.
I would prefer to have a relationship in which she knows she can come to me in times of trouble. Besides, I like the kid and was impressed that he sat down and discussed it like an adult, it took balls. I’m not happy they are having sex but I would be less happy if she was with some asshole just to spite me.
I expect my daughter to have a healthy sex life when appropriate, and only she can decide when that is. My eldest is 15 1/2 and I know has had sex. Her boyfriend is seventeen and we sat them both down and explained that while we didn’t condone it and it was not legal, we know we cannot control her.
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But you can control him…
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Yup[/quote]
Really you can’t. I can threaten harm or even carry it out, but what will that accomplish? It will either drive her to side with him or there will be another to take his place. The bodies could start to pile up.
I would prefer to have a relationship in which she knows she can come to me in times of trouble. Besides, I like the kid and was impressed that he sat down and discussed it like an adult, it took balls. I’m not happy they are having sex but I would be less happy if she was with some asshole just to spite me.
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It was a joke.
I didn’t expect you to actually punch him in the groin.
I expect my daughter to have a healthy sex life when appropriate, and only she can decide when that is. My eldest is 15 1/2 and I know has had sex. Her boyfriend is seventeen and we sat them both down and explained that while we didn’t condone it and it was not legal, we know we cannot control her.
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But you can control him…
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Yup[/quote]
Really you can’t. I can threaten harm or even carry it out, but what will that accomplish? It will either drive her to side with him or there will be another to take his place. The bodies could start to pile up.
I would prefer to have a relationship in which she knows she can come to me in times of trouble. Besides, I like the kid and was impressed that he sat down and discussed it like an adult, it took balls. I’m not happy they are having sex but I would be less happy if she was with some asshole just to spite me.
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It was a joke.
I didn’t expect you to actually punch him in the groin.[/quote]
Now you tell me. I guess I owe someone an apology.
I expect my daughter to have a healthy sex life when appropriate, and only she can decide when that is. My eldest is 15 1/2 and I know has had sex. Her boyfriend is seventeen and we sat them both down and explained that while we didn’t condone it and it was not legal, we know we cannot control her.
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But you can control him…
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Yup[/quote]
Really you can’t. I can threaten harm or even carry it out, but what will that accomplish? It will either drive her to side with him or there will be another to take his place. The bodies could start to pile up.
I would prefer to have a relationship in which she knows she can come to me in times of trouble. Besides, I like the kid and was impressed that he sat down and discussed it like an adult, it took balls. I’m not happy they are having sex but I would be less happy if she was with some asshole just to spite me.
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It was a joke.
I didn’t expect you to actually punch him in the groin.[/quote]
Now you tell me. I guess I owe someone an apology.
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I accept your apology.
I expect my daughter to have a healthy sex life when appropriate, and only she can decide when that is. My eldest is 15 1/2 and I know has had sex. Her boyfriend is seventeen and we sat them both down and explained that while we didn’t condone it and it was not legal, we know we cannot control her.
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But you can control him…
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Yup[/quote]
Really you can’t. I can threaten harm or even carry it out, but what will that accomplish? It will either drive her to side with him or there will be another to take his place. The bodies could start to pile up.
I would prefer to have a relationship in which she knows she can come to me in times of trouble. Besides, I like the kid and was impressed that he sat down and discussed it like an adult, it took balls. I’m not happy they are having sex but I would be less happy if she was with some asshole just to spite me.
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It was a joke.
I didn’t expect you to actually punch him in the groin.[/quote]
Now you tell me. I guess I owe someone an apology.
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I accept your apology.[/quote]