[quote]anonym wrote:
Vegita wrote:
As I pointed out in my “how gay are you” thread, for a very large sum of money, I would most likley engage in a homosexual act. So i guess i’m not 100% straight if a circumstance exists that would cause me to have sex with another man. But that act would be a choice I made, I was not born gay because under that circumstance I had sex with a man.
Homosexuality is, ultimately, an attraction to the same sex.
You can engage in a homosexual act without this attraction.
Duh.
Oh, and your cousin was definitely gay back in high school and college. If you asked, you would most likely learn that he always had homosexual urges and was probably trying to just fake it until he made it… and ultimately failed.
I’m not saying that sexual appetites can’t be learned… just that I have a strong feeling bodybuilding wasn’t the cause of your cousin catching teh ghey.[/quote]
Um no I actually have talked with him at length about it, and he was definately NOT gay before he entered the bodybuilding scene in Miami in the 80’s. The stories he has told me would really open some eyes, mass orgies with bodybuilders and pornstars and strippers. And eventually, all the naked bodies around fornicating desensitized him to the fact of touching a naked man and eventually he said it became normal and he began expiramenting with it further. He later realized he did not like the emotional up and downs of the opposite sex and had several strong bonds with some of his male friends who he viewed as better relationship material. It’s pretty simple really, they viewed it as taking out a sexual urge and instead of needing a woman to do it, they used eachother and then it was basically like hanging out with the guys all the time. Obviously drugs were rampant in his life as well, so a lot of his inhibitions were shattered with the use of drugs. I don’t need to go into it any more than that, and there have been countless articles about how strong the gay element is in bodybuilding. I’m not saying it is the only cause, but his situation at that time, led him down that road.
V