age 30 - bodycount around 50 or so. I tried to have sex with as many chicks as I could in college and usually took home one a weekend. My philosiphy was - hey it’s better than using the hand right? Well, after catching the crabs 4 times, clomidia, and some other thing I dont even know how to pronounce, I decided it wasn’t worth it - got married right after college and thank god or I’m sure I’d have aids by now. I just had no control and would sleep with anything.
Not impressive at all. A huge turn off for any female readers here I am sure.
But first I would have to care.
I really tried to leave this topic alone all together, but something about it just didn’t sit well with me.
Is this all you really think of women? Just a piece of ass. Even if that is how you truly feel why do you think it is inteligent to verbalize those feelings.
I have a great deal of respect for your obvious work ethic in the gym. However, this disgusts me, and I am a pretty liberal female. Is it just a lack of maturity or is this really how the majority of men view their sexual partners, as a “body count”.
It may be cool now to bag all kinds of chicks, but there’s a good chance that you are missing out on the real fun. Knowing someone well enough to be able to effortlessly push all of their buttons. Being so comfortable with one another that experimentation is an everyday thing. Not to mention all of the risks involved. No matter how physical sex is for you it is very emotional for females and there are always consequences associated with that.
I am by no means a saint, but I don’t think that bragging about one’s promiscuity is appropriate for either sex. Men can be consider whores and sluts just as easily as females. Maybe not to your buddies, but any other females that read this will definately view you in this way.
What a shame.
Um, Ericka said what I meant in a lot clearer fashion, but without the cool story. She’s boring
Just kidding toots! ;>)
Never once did I say what I did was right. Never once did I claim I was mature. However, these are your opinons, and you are entitled to them.
Further, you’re just speaking from your perspective, as a female who’s obviously been through some emotional situations in the past with men. So either way, you would see me in a negative light.
Who cares if I talk about them? It’s no different than guys talking about how much weed they smoke, pills they pop, beers they drink, or steroids they shoot up over in the steroid forum. Like I said, I can’t relate to that. I don’t see you waving your flag over there.
If I said, I go thru an oz. of coke a week, would you have responded the same? Probably not, obviously this is a touchy area with you.
And not all females attach a bag of emotions to sex. Some have been cool with keeping it purely physical.
Further, I’m not beating up women, raping them, brutalizing them, mistreating them, or demoralizing them. I’m actually a very respectful guy, I just like sex.
Would I be considered a whore or a slut? Probably, but who cares. Tell me this, in your opinon at what number of sexual partners does one receive this label? To me, everyone who’s having sex and not married is a slut and whore, including me.
“But first I would have to care.”
bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahahhahaahhah lmao. good one greek!
dont worry bro i got your back.
ericka, i wont even go there…
age:19 Body Count:9
Ericka,
I agree with your entire post except that it works both ways. I know a few women that view their partners as nothing more than a romp in the sack, with no emotional attachment, and in my opinion, it’s disrespectful regardless.
About the emotional attachment and sex and all that. It’s an individual thing. Although I’d guess that males are probably more often cool with keeping it physical than women, but it occurs in both. I tend to put a lot of emotion into it, and as can be witnessed by my “body count” I don’t go for one night stands at all. The one I did have is hurting me no end right now (although it HAS been less than a week) because I really really thought there was something there. (I knew the girl before, we weren’t “friends” but I knew her, and seriously liked her a lot)
The only times I’ve had sex that was purely physical to me was with an ex-girlfriend that I didn’t really like or respect anymore. It turns out that she found it to be something other than completely physical, so it ended up hurting her instead, and as little as I liked her at the time that didn’t exactly make me feel good.
Now I’m no saint, and I would gladly fuck someone just for the hell of it, but it’d have to be someone I didn’t know, because most women either turn me off by being stupid/uninteresting to me/childish/too bitchy/too yay saying/whatever or attract me for more than casual relationships (these are rarer)and I don’t really want to be with those for a one nighter because it turns out it leaves me a fucking mess for a week (and counting). I feel pretty much as bad as when I split up with my GF of three years.
So some men do indeed invest a lot emotionally in sex.
/Jacob
“If I said, I go thru an oz. of coke a week, would you have responded the same? Probably not, obviously this is a touchy area with you.”
Actually I would have responded in a similar fashion. As in, why would that be a cool thing to brag about?
“And not all females attach a bag of emotions to sex. Some have been cool with keeping it purely physical.”
Yes they do. I have been in a relationship or two that were strictly physical so I understand how that works. However, there were still emotions that got involved no matter how hard I tried to push them out. At some point in time just sex isn’t enough for women, and if you have found someone who is down for that I sure hope you use protection.
P-DOG:kiss my ass, I have had your back way too much outside of this forum for you to even begin to talk shit.
Oh yeah, and to answer your question…I don’t feel that it is neccessarily the number of partners that someone has that classifies them as a slut or whore. IMO it is their attitude about it, their actions, and a total lack of respect for their sexual partners that brings on those titles.
31 and 0. Nuff said
35, and I’m holding out for Erika
Ok look - I would say that half of the women I took home actually took ME home. I WAS taken advantage 50% of the time at least. Am I proud of this no - but someone asked so I told it like it was. I’ve been married for 6 years and have remained faithfull. THAT I’m proud of.
Here’s a news flash ladies - 99% of guys in and out of high school care only about SEX that’s it. They dont think about the numbers the just want to screw EVERYTHING.
Ericka…
I’ll back you up here. Although I wasn’t totally offended by what was written here by some of the “more experienced” men…
I do agree with you. I think that there is an emotional attachment when it comes to sex for the female (and some males). I’ve been in a situation like that myself. And where I thought I only wanted the physical…it was a battle trying to convince myself of that. Emotions enter into sex for women. Plain and simple.
As for your definition of a slut. Bang on. It doesn’t have to do with numbers…but the attitudes towards it.
That said…
Men will talk. Just as women will too. And in my experience…men generally won’t go into the “emotion details” when telling about their sex life. That’s just how it is. Besides…I have heard women talk about guys and sex with a hell of a lot more nasty descriptors then men.
My two cents.
BIg Chief,
well put.
Ooooo… looks like P-dog and Ericka have had a falling out. See P-dog? You “hit that” and then she turns it around on you and tells you to watch what you say. I’m sure you each have the “goods” on one another…
…now THAT, is reason to brag in itself ROFL.
I’ll be 30 in May… as for my # of women, I shall quote BostonBarrister by saying “it’s none of your beeswax!”
“Here’s a news flash ladies - 99% of guys in and out of high school care only about SEX that’s it. They dont think about the numbers the just want to screw EVERYTHING.”
No Shit!
Im dissapointed.
I thought this was gonna be a thread about Ice-T.