[quote]BostonBarrister wrote:
BostonBarrister wrote:
It’s great to be convinced you are correct – I am quite often convinced I am correct. But, at the same time, you also need to allow that the other person is ALSO convinced he is correct, and not just out there lying or trying to screw people over.
ALDurr wrote:
It’s all fine and good for both parties to believe that they are correct. The problem lies when one party has the ability to affect the lives of the other party. When that happens, their version of what is “correct” for them gets forced onto a group that doesn’t agree with that version. The result is that the group being affected feels like they are being screwed over. Unfortunately, this is what happens in this country more often than not.
In addition, when some individuals who are from that affected group begin to take to the version of “correct” of the other group for themselves, they get viewed in a negative light.
That’s called representative government, and it happens to the losing side after every vote.
In addition, your second paragraph illustrates my problem – people are being looked down upon for daring to have their own opinion that is different from the prescribed group opinion.
I hope Prof notes this, given his position on attributing any “group” beliefs to a member of the group (which, it has been stated, should be the same as mine, which is against it).[/quote]
I think what you are missing here BB is that when individuals take on the “correct” viewpoint of the group that is screwing them over, the collective questions come out: “How can you believe in what this group believes is the correct viewpoint when that very viewpoint is screwing you over along with the rest of us?” and “Do you know that they are just using you and when your usefulness is at an end, they are going to abandon you?”
With our history in this country it is more of an astonishment than anything else that there are members of our community that could still be this trusting and naive.
Case in point, Armstrong Williams. He has his head so far up the current administration’s collective assholes for so long it’s not even funny. But when his shady business came to light of being paid by the Department of Education to push No Child Left Behind, what happened? The entire administration started distancing themselves from him. They really didn’t support him at all.
When he was being flat out ignored by conservative whites and attacked by the liberal whites, he did what all black people in this situation do, he tried to appeal to the black community for help. Nevermind the fact that he has gone on record for many policies that adversely affect the black community and against many policies that help the black community.
When he got slapped down by the very people he was trying to please by his distancing himself from the black community, he came running back. Then when he got a collective “I told you so” he had the nerve to get mad about it. He spouted off about “If you let them get away with doing it to me, it opens the door for them to do it to any one of us.”
Nevermind the fact that it has been done to us before on numerous occassions. Occassions that he has either turned a blind eye to again and again or has flat out tried to denounce as fabrications.
Has he learned from his lesson? No, he still has his head planted firmly in their collective asses.
So when this question is asked about why do black republicans and/or outspoken black conservatives that seem to echo all of the talking points of the republican party get so much harrassment, think about this. Given our collective history in this country along with incidences like the one above, black people like this set themselves up for this type of treatment.
They are only interested in helping themselves first, last and always. This is a majority mentality, which only works well when you are the majority. When you are a minority, you can’t afford to be this way because you are at the complete mercy of the majority with no support from the minority group you came from.
It might look like I am rambling, but there is a point in there somewhere that most minorities intuitively understand. I don’t know if I am explaining it well enough for a member of the majority to understand.