[quote]Powerpuff wrote:
This thread has been really interesting, especially since my exposure to Orthodox Jews is limited to seeing Yentl back in the 80’s and reading some Chaim Potok novels. 
I think I’ve read through this thread, but I apologize if you’ve covered this and I missed it. I don’t know enough to ask any deep questions, but I had a couple of more practical ones.
The observance of so many laws effecting food and would make socializing with people outside your faith difficult, or at least awkward. If you lived on my street, how would you handle social invitations? Would your children play with my kids? Be allowed in my home? Aside, my son took a Jewish girl (not Orthodox) to the winter formal last year and she informed him that she “could go to the dance, but they could never marry.” Haha!! I’m pretty sure that was about the furthest thing from his mind.
You mentioned that you had never been to church services. Is that because your social circles are strictly within your own faith? For example, we are not Catholic, but we’ve attended baptism services for friend’s children. If a Christian co-worker dies, would you attend his funeral? Go to his wedding in a church?
You’ve mentioned the modest dress for both men and women, at least on the sabbath. Is women covering their hair a function of maturity, or is it an indicator of marital status? Women of a certain age, or married women? If your wife wanted to run a marathon, or take a ballet class, would that be acceptable? If so, what would she wear? Can she wear a bathing suit a the beach?
If I went to religious services with your family, would I hear women speak? Pray?
I have read that Orthodox families tend to have more children. Is that just a reflection of your values, or is birth control or spacing one’s children discouraged or prohibited?
Our high school aged children attend religious classes every morning from 6-7 am, before school. They also attend church for 3 hours on Sunday. What is religious instruction like for your kids? Does it differ for men and women?
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Ug. I had a multi-page answer to this and my phone rang and I accidently deleted it.
Will respond in a day or two.