[quote]BetaBerry wrote:
Hmm⦠I think itās interesting that this is four pages of males giving their opinion⦠(sorry if I missed any female posting). Not saying you guys are not entitled to an opinion, but honestly, what does a guy know about having a baby? Iām sure some of you are fathers, and Iām sure guys can learn to be fathers. But having a baby doesnāt mean being a father.
There are fathers who have never had a baby and, sadly, guys who had babies and never became fathers. Please keep that in mind.
From this point of view, having a baby is a female thing. She canāt hide it, she canāt keep doing everything as she always did as if nothing was changing, she canāt keep her body from acting all sorts of crazy and her mind from becoming a new person, a mom.
First, if you think that an aglomerate of cells is life, I sure hope youāre quitting masturbation RIGHT NOW. And sex for reasons other than procreation as well. Youāre throwing away all those cells that have the potential to become a precious snowflake human child. As for women, we should be mourning every period we get as the sign that yet another egg was wasted, deprived of itās chance to become a child.
Seriously?
Now to the more important part. Do any of you guys every think about pregnancy from a womanās perspective? Saying that abortion is giving them the choice of what to do with their bodies is an understatement. Itās giving them the choice of what to do with their whole lives, and probably their familiesā lives, more than simply their bodies.
It also means giving them the choice of not putting in this world one more child that wonāt have a real sense of family, or love, or whose family simply cannot care for, all of which, in my opinion, are horrible options.
I donāt think that women should think of abortion as an option all the time. I do think that contraception is more important. I think that if we want women to not have abortions, we need to teach both girls and boys how to avoid pregnancy. Oh yea, we need to stop thinking that itās all the girlās responsability too, it takes two to tango. But forcing a girl to keep an unwanted baby, because of our own morals? Geez, how is that for āland of freedomā?
Iāve never had an abortion, never even had to use Plan B or anything. Iāve always been careful. But what if I had gotten pregnant at 16? Would I have to drop out of school? Would I have to skip all the experiences a young person should go through? Would I have to be a mom without having the foundation to even take care of myself properly?
What kind of life would I give that kid? How is that fair, that I would be a horrible mom, not to mention I wouldnāt have how to sustain that baby, just because I, sellfishly, couldnāt live with the guilt and the weight of my own choices?
I also donāt have kids, and donāt want a baby at least for the next 5 years, and Iām not even sure if Iāll ever want one. But if I got pregnant now, that would be a whole different story. Now that Iāve finished college, done most of the stupid things young people are supposed to, and got married, if my husband and I had an āaccidentā, I wouldnāt have an abortion just because āI donāt feel like having a babyā. I would keep it, love it, and learn how to be a mom, somehow.
What Iām saying is, everything has circumstances to be taken in consideration, and something as huge as having a baby also includes a whole new future that needs to be thought of before making a decision. And just saying that āthis is right and this is wrongā and deciding what people can or cannot do is too simplistic and irrelevant.
kaaleppi wrote:
pat wrote:
Here is a question for the pro-abortion folks only. At what point does the child with in the womb become human and from what point would it be considered the killing of a human life?
One thing you cannot argue is that it is a human life, but itās still ok to kill itā¦I want to know when itās wrong to kill the unbornā¦Most people donāt agree with partial-birth or 9th month abortions, so that is why I am asking.
It is human life from the conception, what else would it be? And itās not a good idea to kill it, but as I see it, it is not a homicide to kill it. It isnāt a homicide if the baby has not been born. That line may seem arbitrary and I agree it isnāt particularly moral, but it is reasonably clear. If an unborn baby is killed against the mothers wishes it is a crime against the mother. The baby donāt have any human rights before it is born and is breathing with itās own lungs.
What say you?
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/pregnancycomplications/earlyfetaldevelopment.htm
In technical terms, when a woman has been pregnant for 7 weeks, the fetus is considered 5 weeks old. Thatās because in the first two weeks itās just an embryo - a bunch of cells. At 5 weeks a heartbeat can be detected, and in my opinion thatās when things start to get shady. [/quote]
I just dont understand why everyone must be relieved of their responsibilities. It is truly the liberal way.
why engage in an action if you are incapable of dealing with all of the possible consequences?
maybe all those teenage girls should stop slutting around and act as though they have some semblance of dignity and self respect. Maybe they should keep their fucking panties on at prom.
in case you didnāt notice, this is a manās discussion, nobody cares what you think get your ass back in the kitchen.